10 Ways To Get Your Ex Back

You and your beloved have parted ways and now you realize how much you miss them. Your life is going haywire and you are desperate to patch up and rekindle your lost love. Here are 10 ways to get your ex back.

• Communication is the key:

Get in touch with your beloved. It may not be right to call up and give an impression that you are desperate. Instead, send her a text message. It should not be suggestive, but rather, you can message about your memories together. It could be a favorite song that you both loved, a great movie you’ve watched together or a concert you had been together. If you hear back from your ex, probably she is missing you too. But please don’t overdo. A message sent one in a while is the perfect way to open the patch up path.

•Give slow:

The bruises of the breakup may still be fresh. So, don’t push her hard. Sometimes, nagging can actually put her off. Do not hesitate to apologize... A sorry can embalm deepest wounds when said in all sincerity.

•Call her:

She has responded to your message. Now, you can give her a call. Ask her to accompany you on a casual date- Remember- nothing intimate. A movie, her favorite concert, hiking or a game of table tennis depending on her tastes and interests. It’s not yet time to go for a cozy dinner. So, avoid that idea. Just talk to her without pressurizing her into anything or any commitment. She may not yet be ready for the patch up. Give her space. Don’t go down to the level of spying on her or check who she is meeting or anything that might put her off.

•On the date:

If she has agreed to the date, it’s a sure sign that she too is interested in patching up. It is now time to tell her that you missed her. Don’t talk about the break up and don’t try to prove who was wrong. Both of you know the reasons for the break up and if you want to patch up, don’t dig into the history.

•Watch for the vital signs:

You’ve known her all along. So, obviously you can read the vital signs. If she is comfortable with you, it is the time to speak about your mistakes and how willing you are to rectify it and change yourself. Be honest with her. Don’t try to cover up your mistakes. Rather, it would help if you own them and ask for an apology. It is probably the time to tell her that you miss her dearly and would like to meet her again. Be ready to take a ‘no’. Give her more time to decide.

•Going out with Friends:

If you have common friends, it is always better to go out along with friends. This way, you both will remember your old times together and at the same time, it won’t look like you are asking her out too often. Also, even if you are going out as a group, you still can have your moments with her alone.

• Mediation:

If you great friends who are willing to mediate, you can ask them to intervene. When a third person asks, may be your ex will be able to think over it in an unbiased way.

•A new beginning:

If she is willing to give this a try, let bygone be bygone. Don’t discuss with her what went wrong or how many girls you went out with. Also, don’t press her on what she did while the two of you broke up.

•Surprise her:

Women love surprises. Surprise her with a rose, send her chocolates or a greeting card. Send her a personal note saying you love her. It will work like a charm. If you are not a great writer, make use of short poems- you’ll find them in ample on Internet.

•Make her a dinner:

You are now absolutely positive that there is still spark left in your relationship and that she is ready to come back. So, this is your chance. If you know how to cook, which I am sure you would, just invite her for a dinner at home. If you don’t know how to cook, may be you can order something from takeaway joints. If you are really, really serious about her, buy a ring for her. Go down on your knees and propose her once again. No, it won’t look foolish...it will surely melt her and this will rekindle your relationship. It will also show that you truly want her back in your life and are committed.

Once you have won over your ex, don’t repeat the same mistakes that led to the breakup. Every relation needs tender love and care. If you’ve already had a breakup, you need to be more cautious about your relationship and make sure that it works. It doesn’t matter if you go an extra mile to keep your relationship going. After all, she is really worth it!

Yoganand psychic healer and expert at here