10 Ways A Woman Makes Herself More Attractive That Has Nothing To Do With Her Appearance

Looks are certainly something, but sometimes there's more to attraction than just appearance.

1. Confidence.

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There's a reason this is at the very top of the list - confidence is easily the sexiest thing a woman can wear. Let's be honest guys, we're planning on making the first move. We're planning on taking charge in the bedroom, but is it possible to resist a woman who knows what she wants badly enough that she's willing to take control? Is there anything more attractive than when a woman wear's something that suggests that she's well put together, classy, but also confident enough in herself? Absolutely not. A woman who has confidence in herself is instantly more attractive without changing her appearance one bit.

2. Passion.

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A woman who has something in life that makes her heart beat faster, and pursues it with all her might, makes her self significantly more attractive right off the bat. Whether she's passionate about a career in music, teaching, photography, practicing law, whatever it is, seeing her light up about something makes us smile.

3. Intelligence.

A woman who takes her education seriously is the type of woman you want in your life. A wealth of knowledge, a pursuit of knowledge, and the ability to be an independent and free-thinker is easily one of the most attractive qualities around. Keep hitting the books ladies, intelligence is sexy.

4. Communication.

There is absolutely nothing worse than when someone won't communicate with you or open up to you, but there's absolutely nothing better than when a woman tells you exactly how she's feeling. No skirting around the issue, no playing guessing games or expecting you to read her mind, she texts you or calls you enough to let you know she's thinking about you, she makes a vocal effort to spend time with you, and you can trust that what she says is genuine. When she speaks, it is just real, honest, and open conversation. Open communication is the foundation for any relationship, and a woman who knows how to effectively express her thoughts in an efficient and confident manner, no matter how large or small the topic, makes herself just that much more attractive.

5. Sense of Humor.

She's not afraid to laugh at herself. She'll laugh at even your worst jokes. She's not afraid to poke fun at you. She can make jokes that aren't just at other people's expense. A girl with a proper sense of humor makes herself significantly more attractive. Also, there's something absolutely adorable about a girl who smiles and laughs frequently.

6. Independence.

There's a comforting feeling knowing a woman you're dating trusts you enough to lean on your shoulder when she needs you, and as men, there's nothing we want more than for our girl to feel comforted and safe in our arms. It's the reason we do everything we can to make that possible in a relationship. However, a girl who is independent enough to be able to do things for herself, create her own destiny, respects herself enough to stand her ground when she needs to, and who can pick herself back up when she needs to, is quite admirable and attractive

7. She Can Be One of the Guys.

We love our guy time, and we love when women dress themselves to the nines and are "girly-girls", but sometimes having a girl you can share some beer and wings with, and sit-down and watch a football game with is pretty incredible. A girl who knows her sports, or who maybe knows a little something about cars, makes herself significantly more attractive without doing anything to change her appearance.

8. A Kind Heart

Women often wrongfully get put down for being "soft", however a woman with a big, caring heart is so attractive. A woman who has genuine love to give, who shows tenderness, affection, and care makes herself so much more attractive without changing a thing about how she looks.

9. She's Not Afraid to be Herself

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Sure, men absolutely love it when women make the effort to look and feel their best around us. We really appreciate that a lot. However, there are few things more attractive than a girl who is comfortable enough in her own skin to just hang out with us in sweats, without make up, your hair a bit of a mess, while we just order Seamless, and watch Netflix on the couch. Women who show their true colors, who express their individualism, and who aren't afraid to just be themselves are the best. The make-up, nice sundress, and designer pursues are all fine and good, and we love that you care enough to put in the effort, but remember that we're likely dating you, for you, not what you own. Girls who don't feel the need to always be putting on a face around us are immediately just that much more attractive.

10. Positivity.

No one likes a "Negative Nancy." A woman who can find the best in people, find the best in herself, find the best in a bad situation, and who can see and point out the best in you, even on your worst days is a keeper. She's the kind of woman you're immediately attracted to because her attitude is nothing short of infectious. Ladies, keep smiling, because a smile is one of the most attractive things you own.