My Inspiration
My Sugar Baby Tale
So every girl wants to be spoiled, but who wants to have sex with some old guy. It's like all these sugar baby websites are gross and all the sponsors are disgusting. So I read this tumblr page The Sugar Land. The girl is from London and I thought the book she was reviewing was British. It's American and it's called Ho Tactics. I used this book as the bible to do one thing: Live for six months without paying a bill.
The book says to go to places where other women won't be competing, so no clubs or happy hours. I went to the bar at Katana in Los Angeles before happy hour and just enjoyed a drink. I'm only 22 so I was dressed in a way that made me look older, but not like a Hollywood ho. So anyway I noticed a guy that is an actor on the show Empire. I noticed him, but he wasn't my target. He left to go to the bathroom or to his car, I don't know or care. The point is I walked over to his friend a white guy, kind of chubby, but I figured that if he knew him maybe he was a lawyer, agent, investor... So I walk over "thank god he left, I was trying to get your attention." Yes I walked up to this guy who could be my Dad with a pot belly and I hooked him. To keep this short, he was shocked that I did this. I wasn't dressed like a slut, I wasn't doing anything crazy, and it was at an odd hour, so he was off guard. I hooked him.
Over the next week I seduced him, following that book step by step. The first rule is "No Sex" if a man has sex then you won't get what you want. So here's the fun part, he takes me to this hollywood party (I'm not going to tell you what the guy does because you will connect the dots based off the fact that he was sitting with an actor from Empire but he has more money than all the actors on that show) trying to impress me. I use this opportunity to find my real mark. I knew this guy wanted sex and wasn't going to pay if he wasn't going to get it. I didn't want to just get taken out to dinners, I can pay for my own food. I wanted my bills paid for six months. So like in the Ho Tactics book I used this guy's connection to springboard me to a real sucker.
So the sucker I meet at this party is a hip hop artist, not that big to me, but currently has a big song out, whatever. This was months ago so I didn't really care as that song was not out. Anyway he asked who I was at the party with, and mentioning the white man's name made him perk up. He wanted to compete I think. I flirted like never before and two weeks later I had distanced myself from rich pot belly, and had this rapper all over me. Unlike the rich guy, this musician was nice and generous. He would tell me about the mother of his child... the other mother of his child. Trying to use me as a shoulder to cry on but also trying to make me trust him enough for sex. I was smarter than he was.
A great part of the book was telling a man what you need instead of asking. So I began to tell him what I needed to live. Within two weeks (keep in mind it's three weeks since the intro) I had gotten small amounts of cash and a watch. He probably got the watch for free from a jeweler so I didn't feel like I was winning. I wanted more. So I wrote up an eviction letter and told him I was going to have to move back to Ohio because LA was too expensive. He told me to move into his place. I started to cry. I told him he only wanted to have sex and I would be on the street a month later like all the groupies he has. My BS tears worked. He was so into proving it wasn't about sex that he said he would get me my own place under my own name. Not buy, but least. You guys! We literally went down to this apartment community in a great part of LA, paid this 2 bedroom out for a year, with me on the lease and only one key-- my key. So basically I had no rent to pay for a year way better than six months.
Still no sex. He has a few friends in town for a show, one is a rapper who I do know and am in love with fan wise. So anyway they stay the night at his place, we're all having a good time. Remember still no sex. So this big time rapper and me end up the last people up. I don't do drugs and this Super Rapper only drinks. So we're talking about some real stuff. I'm not even using Ho Tactics. I actually like this one. I had been so horny. Phone sex, sex teasing, I didn't want to ruin my money pit with the other rapper, but with this one, it didn't matter. One thing lead to another and we're f**king on the balcony of my "boyfriend/sponsor's" house in the hills. Raw sex. Great sex. Needed sex.
This guy gets nervous. He asks me "So are you his girl or his friend," thinking that I was just a groupie at the house. And too little too late dude. I tell him that it's serious, but don't worry I won't tell his friend aka my boyfriend. But I gave him a look. I was so far down this Ho road after only a month or so, and I gave this guy who I adore and just screwed a look like "I will tell unless..." That's all that needed to be done.
I received a deposit in my account that will pay all my bills for six months and beyond, hush money so this wouldn't start a rap war. I don't talk to either guys, and haven't for months. I have my money and my place, and a new mark who is adding more money to my account (he's not famous so I will end the story here) and I didn't screw anyone for money! I wanted to share this because a lot of the Sugar baby stories seem to revolve around sex and like the Sugar Land girl from London I wanted to share that the Ho Tactics way you don't have to spread your legs to use these men like they try to use us.
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