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This quote by the poet and writer Fernando Pessoa: "The value of things is not in how long they last, but in the intensity with which they happen. That's why there are unforgettable moments, inexplicable things and incomparable people."

Sorry this happened to you. I'm glad you reconnected with them. I get the feeling it helps to know they saw what you saw, and felt the same. Like, I would feel relieved thinking I'm not the only one and I wasn't exaggerating.

Hair extensions, When my local salon closed and moved, I started looking for a new place to get them. I did my homework, read reviews, pre-visited places, compared prices, etc. I chose a place that seemed very decent even if the prices were a little higher. I saved up for about 4… Read More

Didn't work for me. I think it might work for some but my guess is that is a 50/50 chance or less. Also, I've seen places that do it and never train their staff properly (they still charge a lot because that machine can't be cheap). I had it had at two different places. One was a… Read More

There is an alarming percentage of people who want to to go to jail for throwing something at the performer. And also hurt them. And also ruin the concert for others. But hey, you do (selfish) you.

I don't think it was him that needed to check. From the story I gather it was her who wanted him to do it. And he played along to please her and I bet she was pleased to see him running around and going out of his way to do so. Control the call it ;)

To everyone who shared: thank you. This is so good to read for me right now. I felt immense relief. MANY of these stories could easily be me a couple of months ago. I left. I also felt I was imagining things. But like many people here said: you just know when the other person doesn't… Read More

Times 2. They just... follow a pattern?

Ever heard of the "frog in hot water" analogy? Love bombing? Also, some of these people made a social/religious commitment to them that can really weight in. If you live together, if you have kids. You put them first thinking that's the right thing to do (or as an excuse). You hold… Read More

I feel you. They just let it die. And a believe a little piece of you dies with that. Does it get any better? Serious question here form someone who just left an abusive relationship. I wish we had a "and then..." for all of this cases. Like, the turn I'm wishing my life will take.… Read More