Here’s a crazy idea. If you want to stop being paranoid about women possibly accusing you of rape, have you thought about asking them if they want to have sex, and then not doing so if they say no? Also, I continue to be impressed by men who genuinely think that saying someone raped you will immediately get them arrested. SaraKee’s facts are all accurate per numerous studies. If you have the courage to tell authorities about a rape — AND assuming they believe you — the vast majority of those accused are either not prosecuted at all or get acquitted. And even those who get convicted can actually get pity, usually if they chose just the right victim. Look at the Ohio high school football players. They were convicted and cable news literally mourned their lost childhoods and ruined futures. As if football players don’t get away with criminal records and sexual assault accusations all the bloody time. Oh, to have the power you think we do. More rapists might actually end up in prison for a change.