This post has not been vetted or endorsed by BuzzFeed's editorial staff. BuzzFeed Community is a place where anyone can create a post or quiz. Try making your own!Buzz·Posted on Jul 31, 201316 Signs It May Be Time To Stand Up For YourselfAnd just a handful of ways to go about itby TKemsCommunity ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. She's got you in heels 2. Or any kind of costume for that matter 3. Yes, threats of arson are over the line Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. As is...this... Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. Or perhaps they're smothering your dating life Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. Or just you Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. Either way, it's definitely time you stood up for yourself Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. Cuz, honey, you deserve to be treated better than this Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. And this Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 10. Yup. This, too Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 11. The good news is, you've got options Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 12. Food, for one Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 13. Or something a little more aggressive Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 14. Or even the slightly more PASSIVE aggressive route Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. I mean, the whole thing can be an art, really Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 16. And hey, in the end, you never know how they're going to take it Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF