8 Families Fighting For The Right To Get Married

New Left Media and TheFour.com captured the stories of same-sex couples from four states (Maine, Maryland, Minnesota, and Washington) that have marriage equality votes coming up in November.

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1. Meet Liz and Angela. They’ve been together 6+ years and have an 11-month-old son.

Like many, they worry about being good parents. And despite having opposite personalities, they meet in the middle.

They had to get officially married in Boston because it’s not legal in Maryland.

They just want to know that their family is protected like everyone else’s in the state.

2. Meet Annie and Meredith. They’ve been together for 10+ years.

Because it’s not legal to get married in Maine, they had a commitment ceremony.

They hope to “replace” their certificate of support with an official marriage license.

For them, “this is it.” They want to spend the rest of their lives together.

3. Meet Jim and Steve. They’ve been together for 37+ years.

They always interrupt each other and always finish each other’s sentences.

They moved into a new house together in Maine and in many ways feel like a young couple again.

But they are worried about retirement and healthcare. They want to make sure they have access to each other in a time of need.

4. Meet Theresa and Justine. They’ve been together 10+ years.

They have two energetic daughters, which means every day it’s “full steam ahead.”

But even after all this time together, they still take each other’s breath away.

For them, to get married in Minnesota means they can introduce each other as “wife.”

5. Meet Michael and Jamil. They’ve been together 5+ years.

They challenge each other every day but feed off each other’s energy.

They share custody of their 7-year-old daughter, Madison.

And while they are a “married” couple of three years, it’s not legally recognized in Minnesota.

6. Meet Marika and Regina. They’ve been together 12+ years.

They had to hire a lawyer to ensure both parents had rights to their daughter, June.

They are frustrated they cannot cover each other on their health insurance.

At the end of the day, all they want is to be treated like any “normal couple” in Minnesota.

7. Meet Jamie and Eric. They’ve been together 10+ years and have four boys.

In each other, they’ve found people they want as a lifetime partner and people they want to raise a family with.

Their kids are too young to realize their family isn’t treated equally in the state of Washington.

They hope their sons’ generation will be the first that “don’t have to ever remember that.”

8. Meet Debbie and Anna. They’ve been together 12+ years.

They are grateful to have each other in their lives.

And they feel that their family is very much a part of the Washington community.

But what they don’t want is their sons to ever question that they are different than anyone else.

Each story was captured on film by Chase Whiteside and Erick Stoll in partnership with TheFour.com in a four-part series called, Marriage For All Families. Their goal was to demonstrate the everyday “challenges, responsibilities and aspirations” these families experience just like most families across the nation.

Watch each of the video versions of the stories told above:

Maine
Maryland
Minnesota
Washington

These four states will vote on the marriage rights for same-sex couples on November 6th. Learn how to get involved here.

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      This should be such a heartwarming story, instead it made me cry. I hate our laws. People can be so evil.

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    • Sarah C. 6 months ago

      Please explain to me why marriage is so important. Most people I know who got married are divorced. Here, in Quebec, gays can get legal union, which is the same as married except for the church part. Most people with children I know are not married and will not be married. I guess it’s different in the US. I work with a woman who has 2 children and her and her girlfriend are raising them togheter. The father is a close friend and is somewhat involved in the children’s lives but he donated his sperm to them and has no legal obligation. So.. I don’t know. I mean, they should be able to get married, if they want, but I don’t think they HAVE to in order to be a family. Is it legaly different? Please tell me I’m confused.

      • Diana 6 months ago

        First and foremost, it’s the feeling that you’re actually bonded to the other person, that you have more than a fleeting relationship that would be difficult to dissolve. It sends a message to everyone you know that you’re together forever.  Second, there are tons of benefits that married couples get, the scariest to live without being survivor benefits. There’s also being able to visit your spouse in the hospital - which you wouldn’t be able to do unless you were “family”, which you would not be as a boyfriend or girlfriend. Businesses who offer insurance also offer it to spouses (so you have to be married), but some insurance companies / businesses have clauses for homosexual relationships as we sort out our bigoted laws.

      • Sarah C. 6 months ago

        Thank you. Here, you can name whatever beneficiary you want and share work insurance with a partner as long as you have lived under the same roof for over a year. It’s revocable in case of seperation. I didn’t know you could not have insurance or benefits or even hospital visits if you were in a gay relationship. It`s not like that here. Thanks for clearing some stuff up for me. Not that it affects me directly but I am a bit perplexed by the whole thing since to me marriage itself is not that important. Buying a house and having children is more of a comitment.

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