Because we have to look like barbie or ken to look sexy (if those body proportions were even possible)? And no one who has a small penis (or sex without any penises) or isn’t skinny can have mind blowingly awesome sex? For a community that’s trying to promote healthy and positive ideas on gender and sex, this article is ridiculously oppressive towards anyone whose body doesn’t fit into an impossible and often unwanted ideal. Theres a lot of sexiness and beauty in a wide variety of bodies, including transgender bodies and fat bodies and the bodies of those who don’t make enough money to be over the poverty line. This article promotes the idea that some of the most beautiful people I know aren’t worth getting to know intimately because they’re trans* or born to a poor family? That’s fucked up.