At some point in your life, you'll probably experience the "all my friends are getting married" phase and the "all my friends are having babies" phase.
But a few years later, another phase might sneak up on you you: the "all my friends are getting divorced" one.
And... what do you even SAY?
How can you support someone who is experiencing heartbreak on a whole new level?
Not to mention navigating a legal and logistical hell.
If you've been through a divorce, what is the most helpful thing people did to support you?
Tell us in the comments below, and you might be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post!