What's The Best Way To Support Someone Who Is Getting Divorced?

    Aside from bringing them copious amounts of wine.

    At some point in your life, you'll probably experience the "all my friends are getting married" phase and the "all my friends are having babies" phase.

    But a few years later, another phase might sneak up on you you: the "all my friends are getting divorced" one.

    And... what do you even SAY?

    How can you support someone who is experiencing heartbreak on a whole new level?

    Not to mention navigating a legal and logistical hell.

    If you've been through a divorce, what is the most helpful thing people did to support you?

    Tell us in the comments below, and you might be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post!