Buzz·Posted on Nov 14, 201519 Intimate Confessions From Couples Who Feel Pressure To Get MarriedAll confessions courtesy of Whisper.by Pedro FequiereBuzzFeed Junior Staff WriterLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. Getting married is as beautiful as it is confusing. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 2. The idea of it can be terrifying to some. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 3. Sometimes the fear is self-inflicted. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 4. And sometimes it comes from your partner. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 5. Because you're in different stages of life. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 6. There are outside influences that can be, well, frustrating. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 7. And sometimes those influences aren't the most genuine. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 8. The pressure of "expectations" alone can be crippling. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 9. But furthermore crippling if the pressure is coming from the person you might spend forever with. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 10. And maybe YOU'RE the one doing the pressuring. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 11. But making that decision is like a snowflake... View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 12. No two processes are alike. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 13. You never know if or when you'll have a change of heart. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 14. And if that change of heart will lead you to do something drastic. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 15. That you'll in turn regret. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 16. You could give into the outside pressures that are constantly telling you to get tie the knot. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 17. Or you could live in the moment and simply enjoy the company of the one you love. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 18. But maybe you and your significant other just aren't meant for marriage. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh 19. After all, love is the most important thing to consider here. View this whisper on Whisper whisper.sh