I’m happy that these men were able to come forward and talk about this. We can’t afford to be silent about this issue. It disgusts me how people laugh and joke about rape. It makes me so angry and sad :( I have a question, I noticed that some of the attackers referred to their male victims as “girl”..what is up with that? It disturbs me greatly and I can’t figure out why. I hope I’m not offending anyone with this question.