Buzz·Posted on Aug 27, 2014The 21 Most Awkward Things That Can Happen On Your Birthday"Happy birthday!" "YOU TOO." Wait.by Leonora EpsteinBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. Never knowing what to do for your birthday. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. Feeling like a loser for planning your own party. Because it's uncool to be excited about your own birthday. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. Having to drop hints to your friends that you want them to arrange something for your birthday. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. Saying "you too" when someone tells you "happy birthday." 5. When someone decides to send you a happy birthday text like this. Especially if it comes at an inopportune time. View this photo on Instagram 6. Getting a card that someone else thinks is ~hiLaRiOus~ and then having to pretend it's funny, too. 7. Inviting the wrong mix of people to your party and the result is a socially awkward disaster. 8. When your office gives you the standard birthday they do several times a month for everyone else. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. Or worse, when someone in your office decides to draw REAL attention to your birthday, except it usually just confuses everyone. View this photo on Instagram 10. When the waitstaff at a restaurant sing you a happy birthday song, and everyone is looking at you. View this photo on Instagram 11. Finding out about your surprise party in advance. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 12. Making plans of your own that totally botch the setup of a surprise party. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 13. Getting an automated text like this on your birthday. View this photo on Instagram 14. When people don't make a big deal out of your birthday because they just assume you're a birthday-hater. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. If someone has the *brilliant* idea of getting you one of those "over-the-hill" gifts making fun of how "old" you are. 16. When your friends clearly forget about your birthday, but then pull something together last minute. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 17. When your friends clearly forget about your birthday, and don't even make an effort. View this photo on Instagram 18. Hearing from only a few people on your birthday and wondering if anyone cares. View this photo on Instagram 19. When your parents make sex jokes on the day you turn older. 20. Getting a gift you have absolutely no fucking clue what to do with. View this photo on Instagram 21. And finally, when someone catches your birthday fail on camera and puts it on the internet. Where it shall remain. Forever. View this photo on Instagram