Buzz·Posted on Jun 1, 201523 Life Lessons "New York" Taught YouAll hail New York, the Queen of Shade.by Kirsten KingBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. In an argument, always make sure you have the last word. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. If you're not feeling something, don't be afraid to show it. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. Giving zero fucks is a true art form. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. Some situations call for a drink... or five. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. Always push yourself intellectually. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. When things get boring, it's your responsibility to make them interesting. 7. Never be afraid to speak your mind. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. Confidence is key. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. If you can intimidate a room, you own that room. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 10. Never apologize for being yourself. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 11. Don't entertain other people's bullshit. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 12. A quick wit will help you win any argument. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 13. A large glass of wine can get you through even the worst dates. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 14. Know your haters and love your fans. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. It's OK to feel empathy towards your enemies. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 16. If you're feeling your look, embrace it. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 17. Never bottle your feelings up. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 18. When you make an entrance, MAKE AN ENTRANCE. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 19. Compassion is key. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 20. But ultimately, never forget what matters most: You. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 21. Ignore the haters in your life. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 22. And let those haters know exactly where they stand with you. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 23. Finally, ALWAYS have the last laugh. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF