This post has not been vetted or endorsed by BuzzFeed's editorial staff. BuzzFeed Community is a place where anyone can create a post or quiz. Try making your own!Buzz·Posted on Jul 23, 20159 Lessons We've Learned From The Nicki Minaj-Taylor Swift Twitter FiascoThis was not a cat fight.by Kanika TengCommunity ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. If you make a mistake, apologize. Taylor Swift @taylorswift13 I thought I was being called out. I missed the point, I misunderstood, then misspoke. I'm sorry, Nicki. @NICKIMINAJ 03:32 PM - 23 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 2. If you're ready to forgive, do so. NICKI MINAJ @NICKIMINAJ That means so much Taylor, thank you. @taylorswift13 ❤️❤️❤️ 04:26 PM - 23 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 3. Don't use an apology as a weapon. NICKI MINAJ @NICKIMINAJ I've always loved her. Everyone makes mistakes. She gained so much more respect from me. Let's move on. https://t.co/mx9pfIdnzT 04:38 PM - 23 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite It's easy to misconstrue an apology as weakness or vulnerability. DON'T! Be thoughtful and compassionate. Don't hold someone's mistakes against them. 4. If you're a media outlet and you make a mistake, apologize. View this post on Entertainment Weekly @EW An earlier version of our post on Taylor & Nicki used an insensitive juxtaposition of photos. It was a hasty choice—we sincerely apologize. 02:16 AM - 22 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite Better yet, if you're a media outlet pay more attention to how you frame and influence discussions about race. 5. Intersectionality matters. View this post on 6. Just because two women disagree, doesn't mean they hate each other. View this post on This was not a cat fight. This was not two women hating on each other. This was not some silly argument. Ok, at times it was silly. But at its core, this was a misunderstanding between two women who were standing up for what they believe in. 7. Triple check your grammar. BuzzFeed @BuzzFeed I fixed Katy Perry’s tweet that no one could understand http://t.co/Nq0QqKslLg 02:13 PM - 23 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 8. This was never about pitting women against each other. ➰Megan➰ @__MEGANMINAJ there was no need to make an issue out of nicki speaking her mind which affects her and her culture. 11:32 PM - 21 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite Arianna S @OnikasCubbyCatt Its really a shame that everyone is missing the point Nic is trying to make 10:28 PM - 21 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite NICKI MINAJ @NICKIMINAJ I'm not always confident. Just tired. Black women influence pop culture so much but are rarely rewarded for it. https://t.co/2xOvJzBXJX 10:14 PM - 21 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite Now that the storm has cleared, let's get back to the real problem - the one that Nicki Minaj was talking about all along. Racism in the music industry. 9. And last but not least... BuzzFeed @BuzzFeed I think we all learned a very valuable Twitter lesson this week 03:57 PM - 23 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite We can all agree on this, yeah?