7 Tell Tale Signs Your Boyfriend Is Checking Out Of The Relationship

Do you feel your relationship slipping away? Are you denying the fact that you might be losing your boyfriend? Here are 7 signs that tell you your man is not thinking about you anymore.

It's never easy to face the facts. It's only human tendency to dismiss those deep feelings that your relationship may actually be sailing to uncharted waters of which there is no return. If you want to save your relationship with your boyfriend, salvage whatever may remain, and get that spark back before it's too late, pay close attention to these 7 signs that your relationship may have already set course to never never land.

1. Intermediate Eye Contact

One of the first signs you will likely see that your boyfriend is checking out is the lack of eye contact. If that spark is truly fading, you will notice your man looking you in the eyes less and this kind of body language says a lot about his deep feelings and intentions.

2. Lame Excuses

Do you find that your boyfriend is hanging out with you less and less and finding lame excuses to do so. At first you may even disregard these signs as facts that your man is just getting more busy with work or other activities that all of the sudden come up. The truth may be he is finding excuses to do other things instead of actually having to spend time with you.

3. Brief Communication

Another sure sign the relationship is fading is lack of communication between you and your partner. Is he avoiding your phone calls? Is he waiting longer to answer your texts?

4. Hanging Out More With the Boys

If you find him wanting to go out more with his single friends, maybe even in the middle of the work week, this is a clue that cannot be denied.

5. The Cold Shoulder

One of the biggest signs you may be losing your boyfriend is his body language in bed and how he sleeps at night. Does he coddle and cozy up to you or is he sleeping with his back to you? Not only does bed language say a lot about your man's thoughts, but the cold shoulder principal also applies to him caring less about what's going on in your daily life. If at once he was very intrigued and caring about your problems and issues and now turns his shoulder to you, it is a sure tell sign.

6. Short Stays

All new relationships go through a sort of honeymoon phase where you will do anything to spend more time with each other. Sure that generally fades, even in healthy relationships. But if his stays at your place are becoming shorter and shorter, this is another tell that your man is looking for a way out.

7. Sex

Last but certainly not least is sex. Most girls can feel the passion in their man (amongst other things) during sex in a healthy and loving relationship. But if your man starts to avoid sex altogether and you find the love making happening less and less, that's saying a lot about the flame that once used to be there and is now fading.

The good news is that if your boyfriend is still with you, there's always a chance for you to rekindle that flame and spark the love back into your relationship. It's never too late to do something about it. So if you see any of these 7 signs with your boyfriend, start taking action before it's too late.