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58 on the outside, still 17 on the inside! brian and i have decided that our relationship isn't working anymore. he sees how sickly i've become and we both agree that i need some assistance with living. so, eventually, i will move someplace warmer,with less storms no plans yet. a guy in california (sacramento) who is a bariatrician thinks that would be a good place. i'll probably become a basket case sometime, but right now, we are in love, but it has turned into a celibate relationship, like gay brothers. brian said that johnny's wedding brought us both down emotionally.plus ever since i had the fever, i haven't been the same person i may have found a loophole where i can get medicaid,and then services including transportation. even though i get tearful, we both agree that this is the best thing. I was married 26 years to a woman.I probably have kids older than you! I am openly gay and love brutal honesty. I am looking to enlarge our circle of friends but am very shy in person. I need people to invite over for supper! If you are interested, just say hey! I was a chef for 26 years,then worked for NY State and am now retired due to fibromyalgia. Fibromyalgia isn't catchy, but it is a sort of brain damage ( I had a fever of 105.7 and it fried my brain a bit) instead of seratonin, i get pain and fibrofog. It has turned me into an absent minded professor at times. Think of having a bad winter flu (not contagious) just achy all over and chronically wiped out. It puts me in a great mood!! What is Fibromyalgia? Fibromyalgia is characterized by pain or aching in muscles (myalgia) and multiple points of tenderness to palpation, called trigger points. Fibromyalgia is often associated with multiple symptoms, such as sleep disturbances, fatigue, stiffness, headaches, and depression. Fibromyalgia (also known as myalgic encephalomyelitis) and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome are both disorders characterized by widespread musculoskeletal aches, pain and stiffness, soft tissue tenderness, general fatigue, and sleep disturbances. Lately, because I have difficulty walking and standing, I hesitate going to gay events & bars because I feel overwhelmed physically, but i hope that changes with my new location. I have a wonderful sense of humor, but depends on who you ask! If I ask you to be friends, and I don't physically (that sounded dirty) know you, it means that I like your profile and hope that we could be friends in person. I'm very shy and usually need you to make the first move. Then I am a lion (cougar?). I like hanging out with younger people, as I don't feel old inside! I used to be a minister but my views on life have changed so drastically, I just believe in Jesus and am very spiritual, not religious. http://www.soulforce.org/article/homosexuality-bible-gay-christian I don't care what you earn, where you live, what you drive, whether you're gay or straight, fat or thin, tall or short, beautiful or average, rich or poor. If you're my friend, you're my friend. I accept you for who you are, and that's ALL that counts. USUALLY, I DON'T CARE TO CHAT ON FACEBOOK OR c2c AS TOO MANY GUYS WANT TO CHAT AT THE SAME TIME...EMAIL ME INSTEAD!

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