I had debated a reduction for years since I hit puberty. The agony of bra and clothes shopping was insane. It changed when I went to a specialty store, got properly fitted, had a heart attack when I was told I was a G cup, then bought the cutest bra I had ever seen! Finding my true size and not being intimidated liberated me in a way! There is a whole world out there for large chested women. I totally understand issues with back pain and such, but I had always had issues with how they looked. Now that I’m properly fitted, I can wear strapless, and super cute lingerie! Don’t give up on your tata’s ladies!