Things to know before marriage
Most of us get a glimpse of marriage from movies, TV shows, love stories and couples around us; however, only a few people know exactly what it look like before getting married.
Most of us get a glimpse of marriage from movies, TV shows, love stories and couples around us; however, only a few people know exactly what it look like before getting married.
We have dreamed a lot about Mr. Right and marriage life. It’s one of the most wonderful times to engage or get married with your Mr. I-Suppose-He’s-Right. But before you say “yes” when your guy proposes to you, you should think carefully about you and your guy’s relationship.
Do you really, really, really love this guy and want to spend the rest life with him? Or you are only an excited bides-to-be that planning on tying the knot. In marriage you will share your hobbies, mind and privacy with your guy, which will reveal defects in your own characters. You have to learn selflessness instead of selfishness in all aspects of family life such as food choice, remote control and other details.
If you have to share one bed, one bathroom, one bank account and one budget with other guy, you should learn that all these things are not yours but ours. Sometimes you and your husband may hurt each other in words and action. You also need to learn forgiveness when your guy does some selfish things to you.
Beyond the communication with your guy, his finance situation is also very import to you. Whether he has salary, debt or savings, you should know all of his money history to prevent bad things from occurring in the future. You can set a budget for daily expense such as how much spend on cute prom dresses, how much on food and more.
When it comes to baby question, you should know that whether both of you want kids. Some families have more than six children, while some enjoy a DINK family life.
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