So heartbreaking. :( People need to stop thinking “men can’t be raped” and “men have it so easy!”
Movies & TV shows don’t help. Anyone see that movie, 40 Days & 40 Nights, with Josh Hartnett? (I’m giving away the end of the movie here; if you truly don’t want to know how it ends, don’t read this!) Hartnett’s character is raped by his ex-girlfriend in his sleep. Raped. Then she waltzes away like what she did was perfectly fine, and the movie goes on from there like it’s no big deal.
…if the genders were reversed, there’s no way in hell that scene would be considered even remotely okay.