You are clearly an idiot or are just biased towards Jax. I love the show and I love Jax. But clearly in this situation Wendy was in the right. She was a piece of shit junkie and then cleaned her life up, got a good job and wanted her kid to be safe. Jax on the other hand got him kidnapped, let his mom wreck a car with him in it and had him there when his mom got kidnapped just to name a few. He can’t provide an safe or stable home life. At least Wendy had a chance. Until this.