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    The 10 Stages Of Talking To A Guy When You're Socially Awkward

    We have all been there and might visit again in the near future..

    1. First you usually have a few (or nine) cocktails.

    2. You spot a contender

    3. You do you're signature move .. wait for him to talk to you.

    4. If he does hit you up...

    5. Most likely he will usually ask for your drink of choice. Which is usually ...

    6. This new guy seems to be Mr. Charming (or its the nerves and booze taking over)

    7. But who cares this is fun!

    8. You see the night ending like this

    9. When it usually ends like this

    10. Either way its a win