I guess number 2 was never stalked to her house or worst after telling the attacker to fuck off. Sometimes a fuck off isn’t enough, sometimes you’re not the super warrior you’d like to be. Sometimes you’re a victim. But why on earth someone should be ashamed for asking for help in a case of sexual violence?. Someone who is robbed isn’t judged “you wanna play the victim, you were asking for it”, so why victims of sexual violence are?.