10 Reasons Why Men Are Dating Older Women

Men have finally discovered the benefits of dating older women.

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For decades, society has instilled stereotypes on male-female relationships, particularly that women should be younger than their partner. Even LOVE ISLAND contestants Laura Anderson and Wes Nelson have been subjected to criticism on social media for their nine-year age difference. The couple hit it off on the show instantly yet Anderson has been labelled a ‘cougar’ despite being just 29 years of age.

Many famous women have led the way in breaking this ridiculous taboo. Both Kylie Minogue and Madonna are well known for dating men 20 years their junior, Joan Collins was 69 when she married her 37 year-old beau and Tina Turner, 79, has been with her ‘toy boy’ partner for over 30 years!

There are many reasons why men prefer to date older women, here are just a few:

1. Better sex

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Science has been telling us for years that men and women reach their sexual peak at completely different times. Women peak in their thirties and forties whereas men peak in their twenties. More mature women are obviously more sexually experienced, which is a huge turn-on for men. Older women are less inhibited sexually, and much more willing to tell a man exactly what she wants and needs.

2. Less commitment pressure

According to Over 60 Dating, younger men believe they’re safe from the harassment of commitment. Depending on the individual, an older woman may have already had a family, and may not be looking to settle down. Older women and younger men are very compatible and much more likely to have a more carefree relationship if the pressure to commit is not there.

3. Less drama

Older women are more secure in themselves, they know who are they are and what they want. They are less likely to get jealous and insecure in a relationship. They don’t play the ‘dating games’ or abide by any ‘dating rules’ like younger women, so what you see is what you get. This also means that they are less likely to tolerate any b******t, so be warned.

4. Longer lasting happiness

Research carried out by North Carolina State University showed that men, who were in a relationship with a woman 10 or more years older, were more satisfied with their relationship than men closer in age with their partners. Men find older women are more mature and better at communicating and dealing with any relationship issues. They also understand more about compromising in a relationship and are more willing to try and make the relationship work.

5. They appreciate life

Younger women tend to be miserable when they’re single and rely on relationships to make them happy. However older women have learnt that life is not just about having a boyfriend. They know how to have fun and make the most out of life and will act more spontaneously.

6. Financial stability

Older women are much higher on the career ladder and are financially stable. A mature woman's financial independence takes away some of the pressure from a man to support the relationship. Older women will pay their way and not expect a man to pick up the tab. In fact they’re much more likely to treat a guy instead!

7. Better conversations

Older women are able to hold a good, interesting conversation. Mature women don’t care about the Kardashians or Taylor Swift’s new hairstyle. They’re worldly, they want to engage you in intelligent conversation, and they’re much more likely to listen and take in interest in you.

8. They’re more daring

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Believe it or not, older women are much more likely to try new things than younger women. Older women are more appreciative of live and want to try things they’re never experienced, not just with daring sports or off the beaten track travelling, they also want to try stuff they haven’t done in bed!

9. They don’t care about crafting the perfect selfie

Older women are more comfortable with their bodies, their looks and being inside their own skin. They won’t care if that candid photo you took caught a wrinkle, and don’t be surprised if they turn up on a date make-up free. They’ve learnt that there are more important things to care about than perfecting that Facebook pout.

10. You’ll learn from them

Without learning, we’re not really living. Having a worldly and intelligent woman by your side will enlighten your life. You’ll learn things you didn’t even know you were interested in. She has seen a lot and wants to discover so much more, so she will constantly surprise you.