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"I realized that it didn't matter how important the situation was or how much was on the line, he would simply claim he didn't know how until I (or his mother) picked up the slack. He would let things fall apart before handling his life himself. I refused to marry into a lifetime of parenting this man."
Someone in my mentions was stunned that weaponized incompetence "is a real thing".
— Cooper (@Cooperstreaming) June 6, 2023
Understandable. This is a new term for an old behavior. But for fun, as a treat, how about we share our most absurd experiences of weaponized incompetence.
My ex put bleach in a dark load intentionally. When I asked why, he said, "Because I don't want to do laundry, and you will never ask me to do it again!"
— Ruthann (@rjkretser) June 7, 2023
My ex tried to tell me he didn’t know how to use bleach in the washing machine. I’m like you put it in the hole next to the detergent that says “bleach”. He’s a software architect that makes 6 figures.
— B (they/them) (@normalishvegan) June 6, 2023
I asked my ex (a 40 year old man who’d been living on his own for 20 yrs) if he’d boil some water in the kettle for me. And he asked “How do I do that?” To be clear, this was his house, his stove, and his kettle.
— Kelly Mangan (She/Her) 🏳️🌈 (@KellyAMangan) June 7, 2023
My husband: I dont know where to put the dishes away. Its confusing
— Melissa 🇨🇦 (@discoprincess) June 6, 2023
Also my husband: I know the location of all parts in my warehouse, my inventory is organized perfectly.
Me: and yet you dont know where dishes are stored
I asked my ex to clean the tv stand/tv (dust). Showed him what to use. I look over & he’s using the wrong thing on the tv screen, which could do damage. I say something. He says “Well if I can’t do it YOUR WAY I guess I just won’t do it anymore, since I can’t do anything right.”
— Tater Tot Girl Summer McGee (@tatertotsmcgee) June 6, 2023
My ex refused to clean his bathroom and when he moved out the faucet wasn’t working and I learned he hadn’t showered in at least 6 weeks and was just using baby wipes.
— Attack Kangaroo: A Baela stan account (@marie_ghost) June 6, 2023
My ex refused to ever wipe down surfaces.
— TheFitFem ”강페미“ (@the_fit_fem) June 6, 2023
The kitchen counter after doing dishes, dusting the living room, cleaning the shower/toilet, etc.
He claimed that my “cleaning standards were too high” & said he could “never make me happy,” despite me telling him exactly what would.
The men in my family can fix engines, computers and do home repairs but act like breaking down a box for recycling is impossible.
— JulieAnne Stark (@StarkJulieanne) June 6, 2023
I would ask my ex to handle dinner for us on days where I worked 3 or more of my 5 jobs. He would typically either 1) ask me to list the things we had available to make in the house or 2) order out and get me to pay for my half.
— Lauren bIm Allen (@lesmis456) June 7, 2023
My dad is 73 and claims not to know how to run the washing machine.
— Thee Rev. Dr. Boudyka (@bdk1521) June 6, 2023
One of the final straws for me regarding my soon-to-be-ex-husband was that he told me he couldn’t fold his own T-shirt while sitting down. I hadn’t even put the T-shirt in his vicinity to have him fold it- I just rested it by him. I looked at him like he had three heads.
— 𝕻𝖍𝖎𝖑𝖎𝖕𝖕𝖆 𝕸𝖆𝕼𝖚𝖊𝖓𝖙𝖊🌹 Erotic Author (@eroauthorPMQ) June 6, 2023
My husband never cooked and never planned meals and went to the store. He moved out to live with his much younger girlfriend without so much as telling me or the kids, and the next week I ran into him at the grocery story pushing his cart and buying all the things!
— Grace KL (@GracekL1) June 8, 2023
“Can you clean the mirror?”
— Caroline Mincks (@saucymincks) June 7, 2023
“What do I use for that?”
“Glass cleaner.”
“Where do we keep that?”
“With all the other cleaning supplies, same place since we moved here six years ago.”
“What does it look like?”
“It - it’s blue and labeled Glass Cleaner.”
“Oh. How do you use it?”
I was working 2 jobs and going to college full-time, and I got home & my boyfriend who didn’t have to work had cooked dinner, so I asked what we were eating.
— The Lady Becks (@bexforce99) June 8, 2023
He said he only made enough for himself because he didn’t know what foods I liked.
We had been together over a year.
I PERSONALLY know someone that told their wife “I’m the type of person that will purposely mess up so that you won’t ask me again.” They are divorced today. 🫶🏽🙌🏽
— Ashlee (@tweetwithashlee) June 7, 2023