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This Man’s Wife Got Plastic Surgery, And He Admitted He Now Finds Her Unattractive – We Want To Know What You Think

"I can't force myself to find her attractive. I still love her but her face is just weird now."

Recently on the Seasoned Sessions podcast, we came across a post that left us debating: “AITA for being truthful and admitting that I find my wife unattractive after her surgery?”

The poster explained that, while the couple had discussed the wife’s surgery beforehand, he was against it but ultimately had no say. Now he says she looks “weird.”

“She had the fat sucked out of her face, lip fillers, a neck lift, other stuff I don't really get. She gives me uncanny valley vibes now. It freaks me out.” He said.


The poster explained that now his wife is fully healed, she expects things to go back to normal, but he dreads looking at her.

He said he wasn’t harsh or brutally honest, but told her “that her new face wasn't something I found attractive and that I was turned off.”

Unsurprisingly, his wife was very upset and went to stay with her sister, while all her friends think he’s an asshole.


He ended his post by saying that he still loves her, but her face is “just weird now.” And then described her as the blue alien from The Fifth Element, which is pretty unfortunate.

Divatox character from "Power Rangers" movie in costume with metallic accents, posing dramatically

We were torn on this one – on one hand, his wife knew he wasn’t keen on the surgery beforehand, but could his delivery have been better?

Listen to the full discussion here, and tune in to the latest episode of Seasoned Sessions here!|

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