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    Upgrade Your Self-Love Routine With These 28 Products

    Find something new to reach for when you've got a case of the hornies.

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Some may have been sent as samples, but all opinions and reviews are our own. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    1. An inflatable half-moon pillow, so you can find the right leverage — I mean, position to reach your favorite spots.

    Model holding blue inflatable half-moon pillow from side
    Model holding blue inflatable half-moon pillow from front

    Of course, you could use this inflatable pillow as support for your favorite positions, but you could also step up your masturbation routine. This inflatable pillow offers a curved side and flat side, in case you prefer to grind; or use the hole in the center to hold your favorite vibrator or dildo or—wait for it—stick your penis in there (with lube, of course) and use it as a masturbator sleeve, no one is looking!

    Promising reviews: "A pillow is what I was looking for to use for my toys, so that I could ride them and have the toy stay in position. The pillow works well if there is a handle or something to stop the dildo/toy from sinking too far down in pillow. You might need to get a longer toy so you can still enjoy depth of penetration. The opening goes through entire pillow. So you can use pillow with flat side down or rounded side down. I used a manual party balloon inflator from the dollar store to inflate it. Pillow is great to use with the sex bounce chair!" —Mama Neeks

    "This pillow fits nicely under her and props her up in the perfect position for both your pleasure. The angle and pressure of the pillow under her will help you touch all the right 'spots.'" —Stephen Sutton

    Get it from Amazon for $12.89.

    2. A dapper penguin clitoral stimulator designed with Satisfyer's unique air-pulse technology for noncontact suction and pulsation sensations at 11 different intensities.

    It's also waterproof and makes a perfect go-to bath toy that no one would even suspect. One reviewer says it's a great option for FTM trans people who have experienced a bit of bottom growth.

    Promising reviews: "This little thing is aaaaaahhhhhhmazing! Buy it! You will not be disappointed ever again. Its the best stimulator I have ever bought and used. It's super quiet (super bonus when you don't live alone or are finishing what your partner started). It's small and sleek designed. Rechargeable so you aren't stealing the batteries out of the remote. Seriously, everyone should have this. Im buying another for travel and one for the bestie because she NEEDS this thing!!! Well done designers, my panties are off to you .😉" —Kim Keeney

    Get it from Amazon for $33.35.

    3. A unique faux leather pillow for Fleshlight enthusiasts looking to unlock a different kind of hands-free pleasure.

    Model posing next to black faux leather pillow with masturbator from side angle
    Model posing on black faux leather pillow with masturbator

    No, the Fleshlight is not included. But this positioning pillow is specifically designed for Fleshlight users who want to explore missionary position solo. If you're into doggy style, don't worry because there's a pillow for that! The faux leather design offers a sleek look and easy clean-up afterwards.

    Promising reviews: "This works perfectly for me with the original Fleshlight. Just don't be afraid to push it all the way in. You can easily unzip the bottom to push it back out. And if you're creative you can use it in different positions." —Seanpaul

    "It is a must have and I regret not getting it sooner. Holds the toy firmly and provides firm and gentle support to the body. Can't wait to use in VR chat." —lee abshire

    Get it from Liberator for $180 or Amazon for $139.99.

    4. A unique wand vibrator that made a debut in Cardi B's "Up" music video and has gone on to build a very loyal following, so bow down.

    Model holding orange wand vibrator
    Three models each holding wand vibrator

    Her royal highness boasts a waterproof design, five intensity levels and 10 vibrating patterns for up to 50 powerful combinations.

    Promising review: "Amazing! Love Majesty’s quality, it’s got great shape, size and it feels soft and warm to the skin. My favorite part of it are the different patterns and intensity levels! They take you to amazing places and my orgasms have been super intense and delicious!" —Rosalyn A.

    Get it from Vush for $120.

    Vush is an Australia-based sexual wellness brand that wants you to love loving yourself. Whoever you are, wherever you come from, whoever you love; you’re welcome here, just as you are.

    5. The sleek Arc G-spot vibrator by Dame that has a clit-stimulating ridge and curved handle to help you reach bliss.

    Red vibrator and light blue vibrator on sheets
    Model reaching for wet red vibrator on tub

    This waterproof vibrator has a run time of 1.5 hours with five intensities and five patterns to keep you buzzing.

    Promising reviews: "Love it! Great for clitoral stimulation if you have a curvy body. Lots of different settings AND the ability to change the intensity within each one. I highly recommend it." —Frances W.

    "This is the best vibe I have ever had. The controls are so easy and it feels so good with the arc. It’s cute and soft and easy to clean." —Kelsey F.

    Get it from Dame or Amazon for $115 (available in ice and berry).

    Dame Products is a women-founded company developing well-engineered toys that encourage vulnerability, heighten intimacy, and add value to your pleasure.

    6. A wavy glass dildo designed to deliver a ~full~ feeling and extra stimulation with each bead. The adorable heart-shaped end offers easy handling or simply a cute accent between the cheeks.

    Model holding glass dildo with pink heart-shaped handle

    Promising review: "I was so excited to receive this glass love heart-ended beaded dildo. My god she's so pretty and I'm a sucker for anything pretty. She didn't disappoint, she comes with a nice black velour pouch for storage. It's nice and weighty as glass and steel toys are. I bought it to try anally as I knew it would look cute used there and it's not as girthy as my other one, so I figured it would be a bit more comfortable. The glass feels divine. It's cool, but warms up to your body nicely. The beads really stretch and fill you and your muscles tighten around the dildo as you push and pull it in and out of yourself. I just love this toy and I'm going to be using it along with my other glass beaded toy and try DP. Honestly if you haven't tried glass toys please invest in one you won't regret it. There's something so sensual about them. They're firm and weighty and look so pretty and are great to handle. 10/10 from me. Thanks Lovehoney." —Anonymous

    Get it from Lovehoney for $39.99.

    7. A delicate rose-shaped toy with seven powerful vibrating and suction intensities that prove looks can be deceiving.

    I don't know if it's more important to note how many reviewers claim this toy has made them squirt 💦 or how many have said it snatched their soul?

    Promising review: "You won’t be worried about the noise level when you are sent to the stars and you think that’s the end but… you just keep coming. Wow! This is the best toy I’ve ever owned and I have owned more than I can count. I thought it was expensive but a friend recommended and ummm she was right. Wellll worth It! Buy it … yesterday… :0" —Anonymous

    Get it from Amazon for $54.99 (available in red or purple).

    8. A set of three anal plugs with different shapes and sizes that are ideal for beginners who want to explore penetration through the backdoor.

    Three black anal plugs with different textures
    One hot pink anal plug, one light purple anal plug and one light pink plug with different textures

    Choose your favorite: the seductive spiral, the narrow bulbs or the classic graduated bulbs? Convenient retrieval loops offer easy removal.

    Promising reviews: "These were great for my entry into anal play, I think the material and size were great with not having much experience. The purple one felt incredible for both my partner and I when he was penetrating me vaginally at the same time. All in all led to a very fun night." —Paige

    "This product is perfect for those beginning to experiment and play. Three separate sizes and shapes really helped us ease into the process. Great product for an affordable price. Can't go wrong buying this product and I highly recommend these plugs to be added to your toy box." —Scotty

    Get it from Amazon for $14.95 (available in black and pink/purple).

    9. A vibrating stroker that looks like a manta ray and is probably just as powerful. Six speeds and six patterns turn oral sex, masturbation and couples' play into a mind-blowing time for anyone with a penis.

    Teal silicone stroker with ribbed opening and black plastic handle

    Promising review: "Being circumcised, I wasn’t sure that the features it advertised would be all that great for me, but wow, I was wrong. I could (and have) played with this thing for hours. I also like to use it on my husband who is also circumcised. It’s fun to make him squirm. In short, it’s the one toy I make sure is ALWAYS fully charged." —DJP

    Get it from Amazon for $139.98 (available in three colors).

    10. A 7.5-inch hand-sculpted dildo named after a popular Prince song and designed for the modern masturbator who appreciates style over girth, orgasms over options.

    D2 Purple Rain striped purple dildo
    D1 Hot 'N' Cool purple, orange, hot pink and blue striped dildo
    D3 Summer Fling pink, orange and purple stripe dildo
    D6 Electra blue, pink and black stripe dildo

    There are six various dildos in the line, each one with a different length and girth, so you literally can't go wrong. I am obsessing over the look of the Purple Rain dildo though, and I just have a feeling Prince would be into it.

    Promising reviews: "I love sex toys, this one is the newest one in my collection. This brand makes the most soft and sensational sex toys that I've ever used. The feel is wonderful to the skin and if you're looking for something more on the bigger side this is the right one for you. I generally prefer dildos with a more narrow head, so if you're like me you may have a hard time (pun intended) getting this one in but I took on the challenge. I just had to get very lubricated and extra turned on in order to fit this big boy, but in the end I had that feeling of fullness that I was looking for accompanied by the amazing texture from the toy and ended up cumming super hard and feeling completely satisfied. Highly recommend for that lonely weekend or with some fun with your partner :)" —Satisfied customer (on Summer Fling)

    "We have tried many brands but this one is the best so far. The shape is great and its flexible but not too flexible. Perfect length. Love that it doesn't look like an actual penis. Lesbians everywhere will love it!" —Gail E. (on Hot 'N' Cool)

    "Great fit! Perfect size for me and my girlfriend. We were looking for something a little girthier that wouldn’t hurt and this was perfect! Pro tip: wrap it in a heating pad during foreplay for an elevated experience! It is a bit heavy so we are going to have to upgrade our harness because we usually use strapless dildos with our harness so this one slips down a bit but overall, it’s great!" —Nathalie Daoust (on Electra)

    Get it from Amazon for $38.52+ (available in assorted colors and sizes).

    11. The Jubilee clitoral licking butterfly, which has nothing to do with X-Men and everything to do with pleasure via dual stimulation from its nine vibration settings and 10 "licking" modes creating the kind of orgasm that makes you see fireworks.

    Pink vibrator surrounded by pink objects
    @honeyplaybox /

    Promising review: "I am not sure why this product doesn’t have more reviews, but oh my GOD, I just thought I’d share my personal experience. Hands down the best sex toy I’ve ever used. This made my body do things I didn’t know I was capable of. If you are considering purchasing this product, take this review as your sign to purchase. I promise you and your body will NOT regret." —Sadie

    Get it from Honey Play Box for $59 (available in pink and purple).

    Honey Play Box is small sexual wellness company in California run by a group of sex educators, lesbian meme queens and sex toy connoisseurs passionate about bringing inclusive values to the adult industry. They believe pleasure, play, health, and accessibility are necessary for positive experiences of sexuality.

    12. The Starsi vibrator, created with supple silicone and a unique star shape that curves and clings all over for out-of-this-world sensations.

    Orange star-shaped silicone vibrator with detailed ridges and a smiley in the middle
    Model holding star-shaped vibrator curved in palm
    Model holding star-shaped vibrator downwards to reveal space for removable bullet vibrator
    Cute Little Fuckers

    Starsi was designed for all bodies to explore pleasure and can be used with the included removable bullet vibrator or without, in case you are a fan of grinding or just want to stimulate areas with a little less intensity.

    Promising review: "My partner and I have had so much fun with this! It's so soft and all the different parts have such different sensations. The bullet is so strong too, I can only use it on the first setting!! As a nonbinary person I've been so pleased with this toy, it really alleviates any dysphoria I have about playing and it's such a relief! What a lovely toy from an incredible company!" —Kate

    "There is a different feeling from each point of the star, and the center works well too! Another review pointed out that this is not the most powerful vibrator out there, which is true. But I happily contend that it's one of the best vibrators available! It's unassuming, quiet, and easy to use with toys or a partner. And I LOVE that the vibrator motor can be replaced. Big fan :)" —A L

    Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79.

    Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features creature-inspired sex toys in an effort to make sex toys more personal, approachable, and gender inclusive.

    13. A vibrating masturbator sleeve that does away with all the bulk of a classic masturbator but still delivers with 10 vibration settings and a customized snugness based on your (or a partner's) grip and rhythm.

    Model holding black vibrating sleeve to display ribbed interior
    Model holding vibrator at different angle to display textured nub

    There's a little bump at the top for an even more stimulating touch to the base of your tip, and ridges on the inside, so that every movement offers stimulation.

    I don't have a penis, but this looks incredible, and I want it.

    Promising review: "Never bought a toy like this before, and I have no regrets! Multiple settings and very easy to use, the vibrations feel very tender, but intense when used in the right spots. Used it on my partner while we play together, he loves it when I use it on him and feels great in my hand. Used it in the shower, and it is completely waterproof! A great toy to mix things up in bed or by yourself!"—Tony P

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99.

    14. The Bellesa Finger Pro for the babes who like to get off manually and want to add a little electricity to their a cappella masturbation routine.

    Model holding pink finger vibrator
    @bellesaco /

    That little tongue-shaped paddle in the middle of those 105 textured rods? It's got 10 different intensities for you to explore.

    Promising reviews: "Don't be fooled!! Looks small but oh baby. I've never been a vibrator person and I bought this on a whim. This sweet little number will make you feel like you've been called to high heaven — came twice in record time and felt like I was walking on air. It should be a law that every person with a clitoris should own one. Absolutely amazing. 11/10 would recommend. If you buy one, buy this one. You will not regret it." —tck

    "I ordered this toy because of a gift card I had received. When I say that this toy does the job, I am not lying! I have used it alone, in the shower, with my partner and it has done better than expected every use. It has great speed, lasts a while, and overall was a great purchase that I do not regret in any way!!!" —Gab

    Get it from Bellesa for $39.

    15. A wireless wand vibrator with a flexible head and extra special lightning bolt burst button so you can feel the earth move, like an earthquake, but it's just your legs.

    Pink wand vibrator
    Honey Play Box

    Promising review: "I usually have trouble getting all the way there and this got me there in just a few minutes! Some of the patterns are super intense, so I'll have to spend time figuring out when and how to use those! But I love the wand. This is my first one and it was nice that I didn't have to reach too far. I can't wait to use this with my partner!" —Victoria Sager

    Get it from Honey Play Box for $78.

    Honey Play Box is small sexual wellness company in California run by a group of sex educators, lesbian meme queens and sex toy connoisseurs passionate about bringing inclusive values to the adult industry. They believe pleasure, play, health, and accessibility are necessary for positive experiences of sexuality.

    16. A luxurious, new-and-improved version of the OG rabbit vibrator designed with seven vibrating functions and three thrusting levels for an all-around indulgent experience.

    Purple jackrabbit vibrator next to box

    Promising review: "First, it's larger than I expected and I def needed a lot of lube before this guy made it in but jeezus it feels awesome! This isn't to say it's too big, just you'll most likely need some type of lubricant ;-). In the world of sex toys, I now feel like I've been missing out on so much my entire life. This is must have, you can not live without it! Also the price is really awesome here on Amazon, I almost paid well over $100 for it on a sex toy shop." —Jessica

    Get it from Amazon for $74.91.

    17. An electrifying stimulating gel from Unbound that'll give your sex life a jolt.

    Bottle of stimulating gel
    Foil packet of stimulating gel

    Jolt features a water-based blend of peppermint and organic extracts (so it's safe to use with toys), which helps deliver increased blood flow for a warm, tingly sensation.

    Pro-tip: reviewers say less is more when it comes to using this gel!

    Promising review: "This is absolutely my FAVORITE lube. I don’t have a whole lot of sensitivity due to the meds I’m on, however the Jolt Gel really lets me enjoy myself again. I’ve yet to find a lube that compares!!" —T.

    Get it from Unbound for $22 (available as single-use packets for $4 each).

    18. The Original Magic Wand because we salute an iconic classic that does most of the work and still leaves knees ~shaking~ and toes curling.

    The ionic Magic Wand has been around for a long time and keeps it simple with a flexible neck, two speeds and one control switch to go back and forth between them. Also, shout out to the person who created this magnificent video demonstrating the power of the OG.

    Promising review: "I have ascended. My boyfriend and I have ascended. I dreamed of owning this particular wand for many moons. There were people sleeping next door. They are probably awake now. I'd feel guilty if my soul didn't leave my body and enter a new dimension. Cave in. Do it. Get it. You need it. I don't think I have bones anymore. I have turned into jello. I have never thought more clear in my life. I'd like to thank the academy. Thank you technology. Thank you guy who thought of these things in the first place. Thank you internet. I'm going to die peacefully now. Tell my cats I love them." —Kalen

    Get it from Amazon for $47 (and the rechargeable wireless version is here for $81).

    19. A vibrating silicone plug from Unbound that's sure to shake things up with its tapered end and ring handle for easy insertion and removal.

    Purple silicone tapered anal plug with finger loop base

    The Shimmy plug has five vibrating speeds and five patterns to add a little more rumble to anal-play and is completely waterproof and submersible!

    Promising reviews: "This is an amazing product! As a trans-woman it's incredibly hard to find toys that work for me as I don't yet have a *cough* front hole. This one does the trick! It's genuinely changed my experience with any toys I use, as well as making going into the shower an enjoyable and fun experience. Any other trans-women out there looking at this toy: do it! It'll do the trick, I can pretty much guarantee it. —K.S.

    Get it from Unbound for $59.

    20. A transparent masturbator with a tight, convex textured interior that you can twist, stroke and watch through its case until you're finished.

    Model sticking fingers into transparent masturbator
    Front of masturbator with realistic details
    Model holding masturbator to display front and full length

    Yes, it's waterproof, so go ahead and play with it in the shower.

    Promising review: "I typically don't leave to many reviews for things like this that I purchase, but I truly feel that this one is worthy of one. I'm quite surprised at how real this toy feels. I always play with the thought of purchasing something such as this simply because you never know what you're going to get... Well I believe that you pay for what you get, and I certainly got exactly what I paid for.... Pure bliss. You can't go wrong with purchasing this toy. I use others reviews of products to dictate if I'm going to buy something or not on here, so take my word on this, you won't regret buying this for your pleasure." —Mike

    Get it from Amazon for $20.99.

    21. A Satisfyer travel-sized air-pulse stimulator that uses pressure-wave technology because who doesn't like less-mess oral sex?

    Black and white triangle suction vibrator and black case

    A discreet case means you can toss it into your tote or carry-on and 11 intensities mean you can experience a different kind of pleasure at home or on the go, you know?

    Promising review: "If you're looking for the best budget toy of this kind then you've found it right here. Wonderful discreet packaging, cool magnetic charger and cover, and quiet as hell while packing a seriously powerful punch. Worth every penny." —Lisa

    Get it from Amazon for $31.98.

    22. A tapered silicone dildo designed with a poseable shaft, so you can bend and angle it for customizable pleasure.

    Green silicone flexible dildo in straight position
    Green silicone dildo in straight position and bent position
    Silicone dildo in motion of three different positions

    Every body deserves unlimited pleasure and this dildo helps with a firm wire core that helps it keep shape and suction cup base to stay put.

    Promising review: "I finally decided I not only wanted, but, needed a dildo. I loved the idea of being able the change the shape of the Limba Flex to whatever I was in the mood for. I got the medium, and when I first opened it I was a little underwhelmed. It had less girth than what I was expecting but hey, let's do this. Super comfortable, flexes the way you want it, and gets the job done. I'm beyond impressed and am excited to have it in my repertoire." —Whitney May

    Get it from RodeoH for $59.99+ (available at 4.5" L and 6.8" L).

    RodeoH is a women-operated, community-driven artist collective and collaborative with a home base in San Francisco.

    23. A stretchy, silicone