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What a year! The holidays are finally here! And while weâre doing our best to make sure the products we feature will arrive in time, shipping times are especially tricky this year, so we suggest shopping as early as you can.
Stock and shipping times can vary depending on where you live, which product you purchase, and more. So order earlier than you think you need to and be sure to double-check the retailersâ websites for shipping information to ensure that your gift will arrive in time for when you need it.
1. The Date Night Set by We-Vibe that'll add more buzz to their not-so-silent nights with the Nova 2 rabbit vibe and a 10-function vibrating cock ring.
2. A postpartum-inspired sexual wellness kit for whenever they're ready to get back on the saddle after giving birth or experiencing pain in their nether regions. Because no one should have to sacrifice comfort for pleasure.
This innovative set includes the Ohnut silicone rings to add a cushy bumper during penetration, a bottle of the ĂŒber-popular, silicone-based Ăberlube, a palm-sized Iroha mini vibrator by Tenga, and access to Pelvic Gym, an online resource to learning more about pelvic health, managing pain, and recovering after birth.Â
Promising review: "Having used it a few times now, we agree that the Ohnut works. My wife no longer feels the intense discomfort from penetration that's too deep. For her, sex is now enjoyable and doesn't leave her hurting. For me, it still feels great. The Ohnut doesn't impede me at all. The Ohnut goes on quick, the right size doesn't constrict my bit, and doesn't interfere with sexy time at all. Definitely recommended." âTom R.
Shipping info:Â Free priority shipping is available for all orders $30+. Orders placed MondayâFriday before 2 p.m. PDT will ship the same day. Orders placed after that, over the weekend, or on a major holiday will ship the following business day. USPS Ground shipping (3â10 business days) and USPS Priority Mail (3â5 business days) are available at checkout.
Get it from Ohnut Co for $125 (originally $168 and Pelvic Gym is $10/month).
Ohnut Co is a woman-founded wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort so people can rediscover the joy of connection.
3. An innovative training set to help them ease your way into the world of pegging or anal play with a supple silicone 6" vibrating dildo, a strap-on, a harness, a vibrating anal plug designed specifically for beginners, and two wireless remotes to control the vibrations from afar.
So, you want to try out pegging, eh? Well this bundle has it all, and both the beginner's anal plug and dildo vibrator can be controlled with wireless remotes. You can choose one of several different dildo options; the various shapes and designs let you pick exactly what kind of pleasure you want to deliver to your partner.
Promising review: "This is a great anal beginner toy or an excellent option for those looking for something on the smaller end of the plug spectrum. Its excellent motor gives it a lot of bang for the buck so even those who enjoy a larger toy could get a lot of pleasure out of this plug." âKat Stark (on Novice anal plug).
Shipping info: Orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Cutoff dates for holiday shipping are as follows: Dec. 16 for UPS Ground, Dec. 19 for UPS 3-Day Select, Dec. 20 for UPS 2-Day Select Air and Dec. 21 for UPS Next-Day Air.
Get it from B-Vibe for $179 (valued at $250; available in black and fuchsia with 4 different dildo options).
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
4. A versatile sex toy kit with three silicone toys and a detachable bullet vibrator that is compatible with each delivering nine vibration modes to leave them rocking around the Christmas tree.
5. A collection of small-but-mighty emoji-inspired vibrators including a chili pepper, eggplant, pickle and banana that each have 10 vibrating functions and a waterproof silicone design. These are literally the perfect naughty stocking stuffer.
These IG-worthy vibrators are battery-powered, but that doesn't mean they aren't powerful.
Promising review: "Cute and fun. Powerful little vibe. Stock up on batteries. Rechargeable would be nice. Good getting started" âMary J.
Shipping info:Â Standard (5â7 business days), expedited (1â3 business days) and next-day (1 business day) shipping is available at checkout. Free shipping is offered on orders $50+.
Get it from Emojibator for $81 (valued at $136).
Emojibator products are designed with love in Philadelphia, from the brains of Joe Vela and Kristin Fretz. They have created a line of veggie-inspired vibes, emoji vibes, USB vibes, rainbow bondage rope, and accessories that put a twist on sex education.
6. A petite pleasure set by Le Wand that'll satisfy and maybe even deliver plusieurs des petites morts with a bullet vibrator and contoured pointed vibrator designed for targeted pleasure.
The bullet vibrator has 11 vibration modes and four intensities, making it a small but mighty adversary in your arsenal. Or, you can explore more pinpointed pleasure with the Le Wand Point vibrator boasting 15 vibration modes and six different intensities. Pair the bullet with the textured silicone sleeve and ring that add a little more stimulation to your play. Show off your pleasure â I mean pride â with the logo enamel pin.
Shipping info:Â Orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Cutoff dates for holiday shipping are as follows: Dec. 16 for UPS Ground, Dec. 19 for UPS 3-Day Select, Dec. 20 for UPS 2-Day Select Air and Dec. 21 for UPS Next-Day Air.
Get it from Le Wand for $190.
7. A gift set by Mystery Vibe that includes both the powerful and bendy Crescendo and Poco vibrators, designed with 16 vibration intensities to tickle you all over.
8. A trio of textured butt plugs created by self-proclaimed dildo duchess Zoë Ligon for the more experienced anal players. Each plug boasts a different texture and they ALL vibrate, so *shakes bells* jingle jangle.
The small (bump texture), medium (swirl texture) and large (twist texture) plugs each have six vibration modes and a splash-proof design. I'm not necessarily encouraging you to buy them all, but just that you ask yourself "what's the harm?"
Promising review: "The texture plugs are fantastic. The medium was my first B-Vibe product and turned out to be a gateway plug. The medium has a fantastic shape and is easily used in both partner play and the shower. The large has heft and the motor is extremely strong. Time, lube, and patience makes them so easy to enjoy. These are well constructed products worth their premium price." âKevin
Shipping info: Orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Cutoff dates for holiday shipping are as follows: Dec. 16 for UPS Ground, Dec. 19 for UPS 3-Day Select, Dec. 20 for UPS 2-Day Select Air and Dec. 21 for UPS Next-Day Air.
Get it from B-Vibe for $200 (value of $277.50).
9. The Crowd Pleaser bundle by Dame, which includes the Eva hands-free vibrator, the Fin finger vibrator, and Pom, a flexible external vibrator â all of which are made to tease and please.
This collection of fan favorites also includes aloe-based lube and a textured grip sleeve to keep hold of it when things get a little wet and wild. The Fin finger vibrator has a three-speed motor and a convenient tether offers effortless maneuvering for various sensations. Meanwhile, the Pom offers the same maneuverability with broader stimulation of five patterns and five intensities that you'll come to know like the back of your hand.
Promising reviews: "Fun. Cute. Portable. I love the texture and how soft and smooth it feels. The feels and the result are definitely more than anticipated to be honest." âKelsey F. (on the Fin finger vibrator)
"The quality of the product itself is great, but what really impressed me is the different vibration patterns and intensity levels. Out of all the Dame products I have, the Pom is absolutely my favorite!" âCarina Y. (on Pom external vibrator)
"Feels so smooth and natural. Itâs not sticky and doesnât leave an unpleasant feeling if it dries on your fingers/hands. No odor. Really cute packaging and bottles." âKathryne G. (on Alu lubricant)
Shipping info: For Dame, exact shipping options may vary by address, but generally their options are: USPS Standard ($6, or free for $150+), UPS 2 biz day ($20), or UPS next biz day ($30). They process orders by or before 8 p.m. EST SunâThurs, so if you order FriâSat, it could take a couple of days to ship. And no matter what, depending on the order volume, inventory, and other factors, it could take up to seven days for an order to ship.
Get it from Dame for $290 (valued at $341).
10. Or stay in for the night with this electric pleasure bundle by Dame featuring the hands-free Eva vibrator, the Aer suction vibrator, and an aloe-based organic lubricant to keep things comfortable in the moment.
The Aer suction vibrator delivers the best kind of lip service with five patterns and five pulsating intensities, as well as a waterproof design for discreet shower and tub play. Meanwhile, the Eva offers hands-free play with a three-speed motor offering constant stimulation where you need it. Afterwards, effortlessly clean up your toys and hands with the Hand + Vibe spray, created with isopropyl alcohol, witch hazel and a light citrus scent.
Promising reviews: "This is the second toy I've had, first one that has a clit stimulator. And WOW I haven't experienced something like it. The different patterns and intensities are fun to play with. I can't pick one favorite setting, it's a new experience each time I use it." âMelanie C. (on Aer suction vibrator)
"I wash our toys thoroughly before storing them but hate germs, so I love having something I can spray real quick to freshen things up straight out of their storage bags. It smells great and doesn't leave a sticky residue on our hands or toys!" âAlix C (on Hand + Vibe cleaner)
Shipping info: For Dame, exact shipping options may vary by address, but generally their options are: USPS Standard ($6, or free for $150+), UPS 2 biz day ($20), or UPS next biz day ($30). They process orders by or before 8 p.m. EST SunâThurs, so if you order FriâSat, it could take a couple of days to ship. And no matter what, depending on the order volume, inventory, and other factors, it could take up to seven days for an order to ship.
Get it from Dame for $238 (valued at $266).
11. The Power Couple Collection by We-Vibe designed for couples looking to take their intimate moments to the next level with a remote-controlled wearable vibrator and a revolutionary masturbator that's sure to keep them occupied during the holidays.
12. A simple and oh so sweet bundle by Le Wand starring the petite rechargeable wand vibrator, two silicone attachments, and two textured silicone covers for a stimulatin' good time.
The petite wands itself has 10 powerful vibration patterns and six different patterns to explore. A flexible neck and shower-friendly design allow for pleasure in various spaces. But why we're here: the two silicone attachments are designed for internal stimulation, sending those rumbles to your favorite spots; and the two covers offer different textures for extra-stimulating external ~vibes~.
Shipping info: Orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Cutoff dates for holiday shipping are as follows: Dec. 16 for UPS Ground, Dec. 19 for UPS 3-Day Select, Dec. 20 for UPS 2-Day Select Air and Dec. 21 for UPS Next-Day Air.
Get it from Le Wand for $174.99 (valued at $230; available in three colors).
13. Don't think I forgot about my penis-loving readers! Here's a combo pack by Fleshlight that'll make them feel like they're flying in first class and about to join the mile-high club, which is to say â there's a Flight Aviator Fleshlight and a Quickshot Vantage included for both solo and partnered play.
This is your captain speaking, looks like clear skies and we're gearing up for take-off...
The Flight Aviator masturbator is sleek and designed for intense stimulation with an intricate ribbed interior. The Quickshot Vantage masturbator offers versatility with an open-ended design for exposure that allows you to not only see your orgasm, but you can also add it to supplement handjobs and blowjobs. And of course, this pack includes water-based lube to use with both toys.
Promising reviews: "A great pack that comes with everything you need. Fun for your alone times and adds excitement to fun times with someone else. The Aviator and Quickshot both feel amazing! Also, super nice to see the action." âNoukue C.
"Was so excited to try this pack for my first Fleshlight experience. It was better than I imagined. My girl and I are so happy to be able to continue to spice things up with the Flight Pack. Must buy if you are looking for extra fun in the bedroom!" âJustin S.
Shipping info: Free shipping is offered on orders $100+ and UPS Surepost (7â12 days), UPS Ground (1â5 days), UPS 3-Day Select, UPS Second-Day Air and UPS Next-Day Air are available at checkout.
Get it from Fleshlight for $93.95 (valued at $111.85).
14. A couples' gift set by Mystery Vibe featuring the award-winning Crescendo flexible vibrator and the flexible, wearable Tenuto vibe that delivers dual-stimulating vibrations.
15. A vibrant Intro to Kink set by Emojibator that includes a vibrating anal plug, rainbow bondage rope, and the choice of water-based or CBD lube.
The waterproof anal vibrator has 10 vibration modes and a convenient pull-out ring for effortless removal. The colorful Unicorn bondage rope measures 26.25 feet long for multipurpose use, and you make the choice on whether you want to purchase this kit with water-based lube or CBD lube.
Shipping info:Â Standard (5â7 business days), expedited (1â3 business days) and next-day (1 business day) shipping is available at checkout. Free shipping is offered on orders $50+.
Get it from Emojibator for $69+ (valued at $100+).
16. The Poly Pack by Cute Little Fuckers because it features the Trinity, Starsi, and Princette vibrators. Each toy is individually packaged, so spread the love and use them as stocking stuffers or gift this adorable AF set to your lover.
Each toy includes a removable vibrator and can be used in versatile ways for every body, which means the party never ends.
Promising review: "I was curious to try toys for the first time and really didn't know what I would enjoy. I thought the Poly Pack would be my best option and I was right! They are all so great. Other toys seemed intimidating to me but these cute designs make them so enjoyable! They are very quiet, super easy to clean, and the batteries last quite a long time! I use them nearly everyday and have only had to charge them twice in about a month! Highly recommend these toys!" âJessica
Shipping info: Cute Little Fuckers typically processes orders within 2-3 business days and shipping rates vary by zip code. Flat rate shipping, Priority Mail and Priority mail express are offered at checkout.
Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $199 (valued at $237).
Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features creature-inspired sex toys in an effort to make sex toys more personal, approachable, and gender inclusive.
17. A sex toy bundle that offers the "option" of having a partner to play with whether they want to go hands-free with Eva, stimulate the clit with Arc, or remove the friction with Dame's organic aloe lubricant.
The ever-popular 10-function Arc G-spot vibrator boasts a curved design with a ridge tip for pinpointed external stimulation when you want it, whereas the Eva is meant for hands-free external stimulation with or without a partner. Get things started with Dame's aloe-based lubricant and if things get a little too slippery, there's a convenient textured sleeve included for a good grip.Â
Promising reviews: "As someone who usually needs a little clit stimulation to get things going, a hands free toy was the perfect choice for me and my husband. After using it a couple times, Iâve learned to start on the lowest speed and then ramp up to meet arousal. Today during our session using this I had the strongest orgasm Iâve ever had during penetration. It was so good I think I left my body for a moment. I never thought Iâd want to write a review for something like this, but if I get any more orgasms like that I might start handing out flyers on the corner to every woman I see." âKelsey W. (on the Eva hands-free vibrator)
"So cute. Feels so good internally and externally. It is the perfect size. Small enough that I don't need to prep before I use it, but precise enough that I don't feel like I'm missing something." âCharlie G. (on Arc G-spot vibrator)
Shipping info: For Dame, exact shipping options may vary by address, but generally their options are: USPS Standard ($6, or free for $150+), UPS 2 biz day ($20), or UPS next biz day ($30). They process orders by or before 8 p.m. EST SunâThurs, so if you order FriâSat, it could take a couple of days to ship. And no matter what, depending on the order volume, inventory, and other factors, it could take up to seven days for an order to ship.
Get it from Dame for $248 (valued at $276).
18. A Blow & Glow Kit by Fun Factory featuring the ever-popular Manta vibrating stroker and Nos dual-stimulating cock ring, so basically a perfect gift for anyone who likes to suck dick.
19. A Royal Orgasm Set fit for a queen...or anyone who is feelin' themselves (literally) with this versatile finger vibrator, eggplant emojiâinspired bullet vibe, and some must-have water-based lube.
The Queeni finger vibrator is designed for exploration and has five vibration modes, which can all be controlled by a single button. The battery-powered eggplant vibrator has 10 powerful vibration settings to hit the spot and also just make for a hilarious novelty toy. Keep the pleasure ~coming~ with the premium water-based lubricant that's both toy- and condom-safe!
Shipping info:Â Standard (5â7 business days), expedited (1â3 business days) and next-day (1 business day) shipping is available at checkout. Free shipping is offered on orders $50+.
Get it from Emojibator for $69 (valued at $100).
20. The Intimate Touch bundle by Dame featuring the popular palm-sized Pom external vibe, a stimulating arousal serum, and a signature aloe-based lubricant organic lubricant to keep things slippery and comfortable underneath the mistletoe.
21. Orr, gift them the Silver Delights Limited Edition gift set boasting two reviewer-loved toys especially designed to stimulate the clit: an air pulse suction vibrator and classic external bullet vibe.
22. Orrrr, splurge a lot on Mystery Vibe's entire collection: the Crescendo, Tenuto and Poco vibrators, that will deliver endless fun all the way into the new year.
We are getting naughty this Christmas, believe me. Can I â I'm putting Lil Nas X at the top of my wishlist #sorrynotsorry.
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