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If You've Decided To Call It Quits With Your Ex, Tell Me What Ultimately Pushed You To That Decision

Whether you ended things over something small or gave it a lot of thought and made a tough call, I want to know what happened.

Let's be honest: breaking up suuuuucks, but sometimes it can actually be for the best.

So if you've ever made the decision to dump someone and walk away from the relationship, I want to know about the moment that solidified your decision.

Gina Rodriguez and LaKeith Stanfield arguing in Someone Great

Maybe you found out your SO had been cheating on you (for months).

Diane Lane and Olivier Martinez embracing in Unfaithful

Perhaps you realized that you were no longer in love with each other like you once were and that it was time to part ways for good.

Faizon Love and Kali Hawk sitting together on a couch in Couples Retreat

Or, maybe you found yourselves arguing non-stop to the point where the relationship was no longer sustainable (or bearable).

Steve Carell and Julianne Moore standing together outside in Crazy, Stupid, Love

Whether you ended things over something small (the classic ick factor) or gave it a lot of thought and made a tough call, I want to know what happened. How did you feel at the moment? What actually went down? And, most importantly, how are you doing post-breakup?

Tell me about your experience in the comments below or submit anonymously using this form. Your response might just be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post.