It's important to call out problematic actions, but what if some of your most toxic behaviors are things that you didn't even realize you were doing?
Recently, Reddit user u/moth-flame asked, "What do people not recognize as bullying, but actually is?"
1. "Criticizing people at every chance possible, justifying it as 'real-world preparation.'"
"Criticizing and attacking someone and labeling it as 'helping' by being honest. You're not honest; you're just a fucking asshole with a superiority complex.
A dude in my friend group at school would lead an attack on this one girl and would defend it by saying, 'If I don't tell her how shit she is, she'll never know, and she'll never stop being shit, and other people will tell her.'
The others would eat it up, and I seemed to be the only one who saw how cruel and gross it was. I remember telling them how awful they were, and they honestly sat there shocked."