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Start Your Own Cafe And I’ll Give You Some Advice

Pick an inspiration for your own cafe:

What kind of people are your customers generally?

Pick some chairs:

Pick some lighting:

Add some decor:

Ok, let's talk about the food. It's obviously delicious, but what's the other main selling point?

What's your specialty beverage?

What's your specialty bakery/treat item?

What other food do you sell?

What unique feature does your cafe have?

What somewhat food related song will be on your store playlist?

Hire someone to work here with you:

What's the ideal weather outside your shop windows?

Last thing I promise- what comfort food looks the most appetizing? 

Seems like today you’re feeling a little sad or apathetic for no particular reason. It’s just a regular day, so why should you feel so down? Remember, your feelings are valid- on this crazy planet, there’s plenty of reasons to feel that way, but that shouldn’t stop you from enjoying the good moments either! Happiness is a scale. You won’t feel perfect or awful every day, usually somewhere in between. And that’s ok! <3

It’s ok to be sad

You feel like you’re constantly comparing yourself to others and wishing you were more like them. Well I’ve got some news for you: gorgeous gorgeous girls love self love! And you are most certainly a gorgeous gorgeous girl (guy, person, whatever!)! Pretend that you’re your own best friend. I challenge you to think of three things that you would compliment yourself on, or three things that you are proud that you’ve accomplished. It’s hard work to keep loving yourself and being you, but keep up the good work, friend! <3

Love yourself

You might be going through something really tough right now- or maybe just “ordinary life”- it’s ok, life is tough! You might not see it, but you are so amazingly strong and you are handling everything with so much grace. Good job! You’ve got this, I believe in you! And don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it- needing help doesn’t mean that you aren’t strong, only that you’re humble! <3

You are strong

It seems like maybe you’re feeling anxious right now. Life is a lot sometimes. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, try to focus on breathing slowly and look around the space you’re in and count or note items of a certain color. Remember- worrying is helpful sometimes, but sometimes it gets to be too much. Maybe try to listen to calming music, go for a quick walk, or talk to someone you trust to help the things you’re stressed about feel a little less big. (Or if you are a cultured person and know what “A Very Potter Musical” is, think of Ginny singing Not Alone, because A.) you aren’t!! You definitely have me, a random stranger on the internet, rooting for you! and B.) it’ll help distract you! And if you don’t know what it is but you do know what Harry Potter is, I highly recommend you look it up. It’s on YouTube!) Anyways, remember that you aren’t alone in your feelings, and you’re doing amazing! <3

Breathe

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