This Is What Happens When A Porn Star Is Off Set

    "The porn community is very sex-mindful, positive and smart."

    Michelle got to spend the day with Mia Li, a porn star and cam girl. This is what they did together:

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    Mia is super multi-faceted and has a bunch of cool hobbies. She has seven (yes, you read that right) ukeleles, and she played Michelle a little sampling of her song, “Mac and Cheese.”

    Then, Mia took Michelle's rock climbing virginity. Mia has been bouldering, which is climbing without ropes (yikes), for about six years.

    Mia has been working in the adult film industry for about three years. She explained that she has always been a very sexual person who likes to explore. So, when getting into porn was suggested to her, she did some research and decided to try it out!

    She realized it was the right career for her when she realized how, "sex-positive, mindful and smart" the porn community was.

    And she was super happy when she found out that Michelle sometimes watches porn. YEAH GIRL!

    They also bonded over the fact that they both grew up in conservative environments, which made it difficult to talk about sex and sex work, especially for Mia.

    When asked if she'd ever felt uncomfortable during a scene, Mia said she absolutely had, which is why there are always safe words that are used, to make sure that, "the lines of communication stay open."

    When they got back, Mia gave Michelle some tips on how to "cam" correctly.

    Then, Mia showed Michelle all her different sex toys. She is especially fond of butt plugs (brave soul).

    Mia did tell Michelle that she has to fake orgasms sometimes, especially if her partner is going extremely fast and demanding that she "cum for me now." (Sounds familiar, amirite ladies?)

    Michelle was amazed when Mia told her how many times she's orgasmed at once.

    But she went on to make it clear that she always sets her own boundaries and sticks to them.

    Props to Mia for letting Michelle into her world and being so open and honest.