Ah, this is a tough stage! Your teen may seem to be arguing just for the sake of arguing, jumping to conclusions like it is the new norm, thinking the universe revolves around them AND, you are always at fault - and you weren’t even there!
It's drama to the nth degree and you are in the thick of the game now! Complete this challenge by changing your lens to acknowledge that teens are growing and learning during this time, all of these behaviors are NORMAL.
Work to stay connected, as much as you both feel like you may need space right now. You are competing for the reward of a strong relationship with your teen that lasts into adulthood! Keep talking…eat family dinners together…plan outings for just you and your teen - the idea of shopping for something new may be hard for teens to resist right now,…or binge-watch a show together that they get to pick.