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Like many women (and other people with common sense) of this era, I consider myself a feminist. Some days, I am better at practicing what I preach than others. Still, I have come a long way from the tiny, self-proclaimed misogynist I had been as a child. Like many other young women my age steeped in internalized misogyny, I had come from a long history of under-appreciating Carrie Fischer and a whole host of other toxic sins committed against other women. So when I first moved in with my badass, punk-femme of a roommate, I'll admit that I was a tiny bit nervous. Would all the sins of my andro-butch gremlin of my teenage self come back to bite me in the ass now? Opposite. My roommate welcomed me into the fold of femme-appreciation with open arms like the goddess she is. And of the many things she has taught me thus far, here are a few I wish that my adolescent self had known: