10 Green Flags Hinge’s Dating Expert Says LGBTQ+ Daters Should Look For

When it comes to dating as an LGBTQIA+ person, there are a number of green flags to look for. Hinge’s Love and Connection Expert Moe Ari Brown is a licensed therapist, member of the queer community, and professional green flag spotter who is here to help you identify great qualities in a date.

1. Your date asks your pronouns.

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Asking someone's pronouns is a simple way to make anyone feel more comfortable and respected, especially if their pronouns weren’t on their dating profile.

2. Your date listens and ask questions.

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It's the bare minimum for your date to be interested in and curious about what you have to say. 

3. They ask your astrological sign.

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If your date asks for your sun sign, they definitely want to understand who you are as a person a little bit better. Bonus points for asking your moon and rising, too.

4. Your date discusses your relationship style.

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Whether you're monogamous, monogamous-ish, poly, or something else entirely, it's important that your date is receptive to talking about what you both are looking for.

5. If you disagree on topics, your date still respects your opinion.

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As long as you can talk politely to each other, let your different opinions be what makes your dynamic spicy.

6. The way they communicate is open and matches your own.

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Transparent communication is an essential component to any great date. 

7. The date itself moves at a comfortable pace.

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Dates are meant to be pleasurable, not forced or rushed. 

8. You both discuss how to pay the bill.

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Instead of assuming who should pay, you decide to do an even split (or let them snag the bill just this once). Either way, it's a conversation!

9. They invite you to happy hour at their fave gay bar.

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Sharing their favorite spots gives you some insight into their life and offers you the opportunity to reciprocate on your next date.

10. Ultimately, you feel like you're having fun when you're around them.

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You're here for a good time, not a...bad one!

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