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    8 Steps For A Healthy Marriage

    Kelsey Moore, Nicole Marino, Amy Smith

    1. Be open to forgiveness:

    Married couples get into disputes all of the time. Try not to let your spouse go to bed upset, and do not allow yourself to hold grudges. Work it out!

    2. Plan out your future together:

    As a married couple, you should discuss your goals and aspirations with each other. For example, you two should discuss whether or not you would like to have children in the future.

    3. Avoid criticizing your partner:

    4. Remember to compliment your partner

    Try to remind your partner of the reasons why you love them. Show them you really appreciate them for who they are and all that they do.

    5. Talk about all your feelings and thoughts:

    6. Be supportive of your partner:

    7. Keep time for intimacy

    8. Don't compare your marriage: