Posted on Apr 8, 2022

21 Absolutely Abhorrent Texts Sent By "Nice Guys" That Show How Hard It Is To Be A Woman

"I bet you're ugly anyways. I can literally have any girl I want. You should be happy that I even gave you a chance."

by Hannah Marder

BuzzFeed Staff

1. This man considered politely declining a second date "disgusting behavior":

To ghost or not to ghost? here is the answer... on why you should. from niceguys

after a date, a guy says it was great meeting the girl, but the girl says there was no chemistry and they shouldn't go out again. the guy says it's harsh and disgusting behavior then says "go f*** yourself, you're fat and ugly"

2. This Nice Guy felt rejected after bragging about his dick size and not getting a reply, so he just resorted to being racist:

Went on one date with this lovely gentleman… from niceguys

3. This guy got angry about a girl not messaging him back after he linked her dog's fundraiser to his friends, so he reported the fundraiser and told all his friends it was a scam:

Someone please explain what his problem is to me 😭 from niceguys

guy asks why girl didn't message him back, saying he thought they were friends after he shared her dog's fundraiser, and the girl says she's been busy worrying over her dog. the guy says he'll tell his friends it was fake and report it

4. This "17-year-old" (sure, Jan) tried to get a minor to have phone sex with him and then berated her when she said no:

bro wants some of that redditussy from niceguys

guy on reddit says hi to a girl and asks her age — she says 16 and he says he's 17 then asks for phone sex, saying he's good at it. she says no and he calls her a few swear insults and says she's probably ugly

5. This guy quoted the ultimate Nice Guy cringe line — "the devil shivers when a nice guy finally snaps" — after he was posted on r/NiceGuys.

OH MY GOD THEY WONT STOP. THIS HAS TO BE A RECORD OF SOME KIND RIGHT??? from niceguys

messages calling a girl an attention-grabber and saying she's the reason men hate women and that men kill themselves, and that he's actually nice in real life

6. This guy thought compliments were worth receiving nudes:

After I’ve told him no thank you for dates and I have a bf (of 3 years), and I wasn’t going to send nudes, I get this lol from niceguys

7. This guy went after his best friend's ex after she told him she wasn't interested, then tried to send her a dick pic:

Whatta nice guy :) also happy new year guys ! from niceguys

best friend of girl's ex says he always had a crush on her and his dick is bigger than her ex's, and she tells him she's not interested and to leave her alone, but he keeps trying to send a picture

8. This man said he'd be worth $50 million in five years, because Nice Guys looooove to brag about how you missed out on a future rich guy:

My friend was on a dating app and had this experience. She doesn’t have a Reddit so she said I could post for her from niceguys

girl says she wants to cancel the second date and guy asks her to meet in person one more time to test chemistry. she says no again and he says it's her loss because he'll be rich soon and she's missing out on a happy life with him

9. This Nice Guy called his ex "dead inside" for not sleeping with him:

Met up with my ex last night and got berated for not sleeping with him... from niceguys

10. This Nice Guy got a very polite rejection and resorted to insults:

Goofball is not an insult. wtf... just trying to make new friends... from niceguys

11. This Nice Guy got a new number so he could berate a potential date for their availability:

he couldn’t accept uncertainty in regards to a date (because of my work obligations), so i kindly declined. he started throwing insults, so i blocked him.. but he found a way to get his last words in. from niceguys

12. This guy couldn't understand how someone couldn't be into a guy with a six-figure job:

went on 1 date, said no to the 2nd date and woke up to this 🥴 from niceguys

13. This Nice Guy blamed a married woman for posting selfies and making him want to "touch" her:

Guy I went to college with just moved back to my hometown, I've seen him several times as he's friends with people I know and he's been overly friendly even after I asked him to stop since I'm married. he keeps trying to just go out one on one. from niceguys

guy asks girl to go out for drinks, girl says she's married and he always gets flirty, he sends pictures saying she can't dress like that and expect men not to want her, and the girl rejects him again, so he calls her a "slag" and a "user"

14. This Nice Guy just got worse and worse with time:

I broke up with my ex after losing interest 3 months into the relationship. from niceguys

long messages from a guy apologizing and begging to be friends then calling her a rebound and saying she didn't deserve him and doesn't deserve happiness

15. This Nice Guy went to opposite extremes, as they like to do:

This was from a couple years ago when I ended things with someone I was seeing on and off and finally wasn’t willing to put up with his temper. As you can see, he’s a very nice guy. from niceguys

16. This Nice Guy's switch-up was particularly fast:

world record from niceguys

17. This Nice Guy was seemingly doing this to every woman he knew:

Our local nice guy is at it again (same guy, all different girls) from niceguys

guy says "not gonna tuck me in" then keeps messaging, all over the course of 2 days, then saying "f you" and "what did I do to deserve you ignoring me?" the woman replies she works 10-12 hour days

man says "females" are completely effed up because of social media and girls like her, saying they all think they're so valuable and are selfish and vindictive and can't even take "2 seconds out of their day" to say hi back

guy asks if girl has a boyfriend then keeps texting, saying they must never check messages, and calls them stuck up for "ignoring" them

18. This guy begged for sex, saying they "didn't even have to talk," then pretended he didn't know who he was texting:

An oldie but a goodie from niceguys

man breaks up with woman and then keeps messaging her, saying "get out of my hair" then switching and asking for sex, saying they don't even have to talk, before finishing by saying "who is this?"

19. This Nice Guy ruined his own chances:

But women are naturally irrational… from niceguys

dating app messages where a guy calls girls mean and flakey saying guys are good and not materialistic while women are wild and unreliable and just want pictures for instagram. the woman then rejects him

20. This Nice Guy blamed the woman for turning him on with her "womanly charms and deception":

Just- this. from niceguys

21. And finally, this Nice Guy was actually one of the worst people on the planet:

Context: This woman just had a miscarriage and was dumped by her abusive ex. from niceguys

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21 Absolutely Abhorrent Texts Sent By "Nice Guys" That Show How Hard It Is To Be A Woman

If you date men, you've probably dealt with the dreaded "Nice Guy," aka a guy who proclaims himself to be nice or starts by forcing favors and compliments on you, then turns mean and even threatening when you reject them.

These men feel entitled to sexual attention because they feel they have "paid" their victim through being nice to them. The idea that women owe men attention and sex is so thoroughly entrenched in our society that dealing with these Nice Guys is infuriatingly common for many women.

Here are 21 horrifying exchanges between women and Nice Guys that show just how bad it is.

WARNING: The messages below mention topics such as miscarriages and suicide, and they are overall just disgustingly sexist, sometimes racist, and filled with profanity.

1. This man considered politely declining a second date "disgusting behavior":

2. This Nice Guy felt rejected after bragging about his dick size and not getting a reply, so he just resorted to being racist:

3. This guy got angry about a girl not messaging him back after he linked her dog's fundraiser to his friends, so he reported the fundraiser and told all his friends it was a scam:

Here's the whole convo:

4. This "17-year-old" (sure, Jan) tried to get a minor to have phone sex with him and then berated her when she said no:

5. This guy quoted the ultimate Nice Guy cringe line — "the devil shivers when a nice guy finally snaps" — after he was posted on r/NiceGuys.

6. This guy thought compliments were worth receiving nudes:

7. This guy went after his best friend's ex after she told him she wasn't interested, then tried to send her a dick pic:

8. This man said he'd be worth $50 million in five years, because Nice Guys looooove to brag about how you missed out on a future rich guy:

9. This Nice Guy called his ex "dead inside" for not sleeping with him:

10. This Nice Guy got a very polite rejection and resorted to insults:

11. This Nice Guy got a new number so he could berate a potential date for their availability:

12. This guy couldn't understand how someone couldn't be into a guy with a six-figure job:

13. This Nice Guy blamed a married woman for posting selfies and making him want to "touch" her:

14. This Nice Guy just got worse and worse with time:

15. This Nice Guy went to opposite extremes, as they like to do:

16. This Nice Guy's switch-up was particularly fast:

17. This Nice Guy was seemingly doing this to every woman he knew:

Here's another:

And another:

18. This guy begged for sex, saying they "didn't even have to talk," then pretended he didn't know who he was texting:

19. This Nice Guy ruined his own chances:

20. This Nice Guy blamed the woman for turning him on with her "womanly charms and deception":

21. And finally, this Nice Guy was actually one of the worst people on the planet:

H/T: r/NiceGuys

21 Absolutely Abhorrent Texts Sent By "Nice Guys" That Show How Hard It Is To Be A Woman

If you date men, you've probably dealt with the dreaded "Nice Guy," aka a guy who proclaims himself to be nice or starts by forcing favors and compliments on you, then turns mean and even threatening when you reject them.

These men feel entitled to sexual attention because they feel they have "paid" their victim through being nice to them. The idea that women owe men attention and sex is so thoroughly entrenched in our society that dealing with these Nice Guys is infuriatingly common for many women.

Here are 21 horrifying exchanges between women and Nice Guys that show just how bad it is.

WARNING: The messages below mention topics such as miscarriages and suicide, and they are overall just disgustingly sexist, sometimes racist, and filled with profanity.

1. This man considered politely declining a second date "disgusting behavior":

2. This Nice Guy felt rejected after bragging about his dick size and not getting a reply, so he just resorted to being racist:

3. This guy got angry about a girl not messaging him back after he linked her dog's fundraiser to his friends, so he reported the fundraiser and told all his friends it was a scam:

Here's the whole convo:

4. This "17-year-old" (sure, Jan) tried to get a minor to have phone sex with him and then berated her when she said no:

5. This guy quoted the ultimate Nice Guy cringe line — "the devil shivers when a nice guy finally snaps" — after he was posted on r/NiceGuys.

6. This guy thought compliments were worth receiving nudes:

7. This guy went after his best friend's ex after she told him she wasn't interested, then tried to send her a dick pic:

8. This man said he'd be worth $50 million in five years, because Nice Guys looooove to brag about how you missed out on a future rich guy:

9. This Nice Guy called his ex "dead inside" for not sleeping with him:

10. This Nice Guy got a very polite rejection and resorted to insults:

11. This Nice Guy got a new number so he could berate a potential date for their availability:

12. This guy couldn't understand how someone couldn't be into a guy with a six-figure job:

13. This Nice Guy blamed a married woman for posting selfies and making him want to "touch" her:

14. This Nice Guy just got worse and worse with time:

15. This Nice Guy went to opposite extremes, as they like to do:

16. This Nice Guy's switch-up was particularly fast:

17. This Nice Guy was seemingly doing this to every woman he knew:

Here's another:

And another:

18. This guy begged for sex, saying they "didn't even have to talk," then pretended he didn't know who he was texting:

19. This Nice Guy ruined his own chances:

20. This Nice Guy blamed the woman for turning him on with her "womanly charms and deception":

21. And finally, this Nice Guy was actually one of the worst people on the planet:

H/T: r/NiceGuys

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