Tell Me What Your Spouse Did That Had You Considering Getting A Divorce

    This is a safe space to share your story.

    From what I hear, marriage takes a lot of work, love, and patience.

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    Unfortunately, sometimes things don't always work out between two people who had the best intentions when they said "I do" at the altar, resulting in separation or divorce.

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    Othertimes, people might think they want to end things with their spouse but instead, they stay together and work things out.

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    All of these thoughts bring me to my question for the BuzzFeed Community: what did your spouse do that had you considering filing for divorce? Also, share with me if you ended up divorcing your spouse or if you stayed together after all.

    Maybe you found inappropriate texts between your spouse and their co-worker, suggesting that something physical was going on between them. Your friends suggested you divorce your spouse but instead, you decided to work things out.

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    Perhaps there was a lot of tension between your parents and your spouse because they didn't get along. You hated being put in the middle of these relationships that you considered ending your marriage.

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    Or maybe you got married at a young age and you feel like you've evolved into a different person who wants different things from when you got married. You considered at one point splitting up with your spouse and going your separate ways...

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    Whatever your reasoning and story are, I'd love to hear more. Share it with me in this anonymous form or in the comments below.

    Some responses might be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post.