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23 Of The Pettiest Things People Have Ever Done In A Relationship

Hurt people hurt people.

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We recently asked the BuzzFeed Community to share their petty love stories. Scroll through and delight your petty little hearts!

1. Sunday night Catholicism.

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"My boyfriend wouldn’t let me watch a show on the big TV because football. He didn’t know that my phone worked as a remote, so I kept changing it to the Catholic channel right as someone was going to score." —meganh4623b02ca

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2. The sexy breakup.

"I told my ex that I didn’t love him, I never did, he's a major asshole, and I was going to break up with him ASAP, but I said it all in Spanish. He doesn’t understand Spanish, and he said I was cute and he liked it when I 'talk the sexy language' to him. I broke up with him three days later." —rcdpowers1999

3. Team Horny.

"My husband is a big fan of the New Orleans Saints and had a beloved Joe Horn jersey. I don’t recall the circumstances of our argument, but I made my way to his closet with an industrial-size Sharpie and neatly printed a 'Y' on the jersey. We resolved our differences and I forgot about it until I got a call from him on his lunch break months later. He told me he had gotten strange looks from co-workers all day and someone asked if he thought he was being funny. He was directed to a mirror and informed that he had been wearing a HORNY jersey at his office’s Sports Day. OOOPS!" —madzam231

4. Cheese drawer.

"One time my boyfriend was really pissing me off, so I filled his bedside table drawer with Cheez-Its. They’re still in there, and I laugh every time I open the drawer!" —ls2310

5. By any means necessary.

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"I made up a story about something mean he had said earlier, but he didn't really say it. I just wanted an apology for all the other things he did say but never apologized for." —Woods Bubby, Facebook

6. Shrimp-stuffed curtain rods.

"I took out my phone at Thanksgiving dinner to see that my ex live-in boyfriend changed his relationship status to single. Thousands of texts and voicemails later we broke up (he was cheating). My stepdad, a super jolly old guy, was just as angry as I was. He told me to put shrimp inside the hollow part of the curtain rods and close them up. I'm not sure how bad the outcome was since we haven't had contact since then, but I'm sure he wasn't bringing home any new girls until he figured it out." —Hayden Grant, Facebook

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7. New password.

"He still had my Netflix, so I waited until he finished the second to last episode of some show to change my password." —baileyj4f3c6d6c8

8. Movie spoilers.

"Once during a really heated argument, my husband decided he was 'done talking' aka shutting down communication with no resolution. He stormed out of the house and told me he was going to go see a movie. Since I knew what he was going to see, as he had been talking about it for weeks, I Googled spoilers for the movie and texted him them while he was on the drive there. He returned shortly after and told me what an asshole I was. Still worth it, though." —Samantha Marie Wysong, Facebook

9. And the Darwin award goes to...

"I submitted my first ex-BF to the Darwin Awards for something stupid he did in high school. It was accepted, I have the book... I don't think I'm petty enough to flat-out reveal it, but I will admit that it involves a rocket and he is still alive." —Milica Moore

10. Let it burn(er phone).

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"I knew an ex was talking to people on the side, so I bought a burner phone. I made a fake account on the dating app he used, matched with him, and gave him my fake number. We texted for days and planned to meet up. I finally confronted him the night he was supposed to meet his match, specifically for drinks and then kinky sex. He tried to argue that the whole thing would have never happened, and it wasn’t actually cheating because the sex never happened." —natalier4e0245b70

11. His mommy and me.

"One of my girls at work had this guy who did nothing but cheat on her with his ex. She caught them in her car messing around, so when he was out of town, his mother let her into his apartment and she trashed everything in it. His mom knew and she was totally OK with it. That was pretty savage." —Sherri Thomas, Facebook

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12. All farts everything.

"I had an on-and-off-again long-term boyfriend. At the time, we were kinda getting back into the 'on' stages. He was dating a girl I knew from school, so I took a picture with him and made it my profile pic and then went to add the girl on Facebook. She denied the request and broke things off with him.

"At that same time he also had an OKC account, so I went on his laptop and changed all his profile information to be about farts. In things about him: he just loved farts. The seven things he can't live without: farts." —Sara Heinemeyer, Facebook

13. Free his nipple.

"He called me a name, so I cut all the nipples out of his shirts and broke his CDs and put them under his pillow for him to find when he went to bed."deonnar2

14. Boy toy.

"I found a screenshot in his DMs that a girl sent him of his contact in her phone: 'My Boy Toy.' I set the screenshot as his background before I went to work."sierras40fc37c21

15. Free of charge.

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"I was out for dinner with a guy (that I’m currently still seeing) and we got into a bit of an argument. Naturally, I always like to have the last word, so when I didn’t get it, I decided to get a little petty. Back at his place I mashed up his iPhone charger just enough so it wouldn’t work properly, and then I ate his leftover Popeye’s biscuits in the fridge while he was in the bathroom. It was difficult to keep a straight face when he woke up the next morning and his phone wasn’t charged." —margherita

16. DIY sweatshirt vest.

"My husband was constantly ruining my clothes by putting things in the dryer that shouldn’t be dried, or putting things in the washer that need to be hand washed. Recently, he did a load of laundry and pulled out some of his clothes to be air dried, but put some of my dry-flat-only clothes in the dryer. He didn’t think it was a big deal, so I took a pair of scissors and cut one of this favorite sweatshirts down the middle. He makes sure to read the labels now." —lindsayp4fc26f69a

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17. Don't spread it.

"Years ago, when we were on a break, I saw my boyfriend at a party flirting with another girl. I walked over, played nice, then told him the doctor had called and wanted me to remind him to finish all the antibiotics so he didn’t spread 'IT' to anyone else. We’ve been married 27 years and have five kids. They’re the only real STDs we’ve ever had! Yes, that’s a joke. Yes, my kids laugh at it, too!" —thatcrazymom

18. I ain't sorry.

"One time I was mad at my boyfriend for lying about something, so I watched the 'Battle of the Bastards' episode of Game of Thrones without him. While he was watching it I yelled, 'Sansa feeds Ramsay to his own dogs!' from the other room. His reaction was so priceless. I’m still not even sorry!" —alysab3

19. Bank (un)rolls.

"I gave him a box of $300 worth of half-dollars to pay him back, unrolled. The bank won’t take them back that way, and coin counting machines won’t take half dollars. It weighed about 20 pounds." —kaitlint4d0ac85e4

20. Bagel frisbee.

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"Years ago my husband and I got into an argument. I was so mad I didn’t know what to say to him, so I picked his bagel up off his plate, opened the back door, and chucked it like a frisbee off the balcony." —elisabethp

21. Prom com.

"When I was in high school, my boyfriend had a really obnoxious female friend who I didn’t care for. He wanted to go to her party after prom, but I was specifically not invited. He chose to go without me, so I chose to bring his hot college friend to prom instead of going with him. Pettiest thing I have ever done." —emilyl4cdaf24ea

22. The L-League.

"My ex was a low-life with a pipe dream of being in the NBA, so that meant he had no job because he needed to 'practice' (wasn't even that good). I was paying for everything. He eventually asked me if I could pay $200+ so he could go to a D-league camp. Well, he started treating me cold AF after I paid, and he broke up with me because he was 'going to be very busy soon, and wouldn’t have time' for me. I lost my shit. I called the place where the tryout was and asked for my money back. They said no at first, but eventually a little girl power happened and a woman gave me my money back and took him off the roster. He didn't know until the day of the tryout. He blames me for his lack of career. It was really his lack of left-handed ball control laziness on defense, but I'll accept the blame graciously." —a44034cf5d

23. These bros ain't loyal.

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"My ex broke up with me (for the third time) because there was 'someone else,' so I threw all his stuff in the fountain on my campus quad and put it on Snapchat. Apparently his brother saw the snap and said, 'I feel like as his brother I should be mad, but he kinda deserved it.'" —emmagrayo

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