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    We've Convinced Ourselves These 18 Weird Things Are Actually Romantic Just Because They Happen In Movies

    If someone tried to sing to me in public, I would simply run away.

    I've always been a rom-com fiend — you name it, I've watched and loved it!

    But there are definitely times when the warm, fuzzy feeling of a good rom-com has worn off, and you realise how ~weird~ some of their so-called "romantic" moments were.

    1. For instance, turning up on someone's doorstep and professing your love to them via cards.

    Andrew Lincoln as Mark in love actually holding a card that says to me you are perfect

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    2. Or climbing through someone's window and watching them sleep!

    Edward Cullen standing in the corner of Bella's room in a scene from twilight

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    3. Singing to the person you like in a very public space in front of everyone they know.

    heath ledger singing into a microphone in a scene from 10 things i hate about you

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    4. Dashing through airport security to tell someone you love them.

    a girl turns to face a boy in airport security in a scene from love actually

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    5. Or even stopping a plane from taking off completely for love!

    an injured Jim Carrey looking at his ex wife in scene from liar liar

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    6. Standing outside of someone's window and playing loud music on your boombox to get them back.

    John Cusack standing outside a window holding a stereo system in a scene from Say Anything

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    7. Persistently asking a perfect stranger out.

    an opened diary that has a name and number written in it

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    8. Hanging off a ferris wheel to make someone go out with you even though they've already turned you down.

    Noah hanging off the ferris wheel in the notebook

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    9. Fighting someone for another person, physically and in public... Colin Firth and Hugh Grant, I'm looking at you!

    colin firth and hugh grant in the street facing each other ready to fight with people watching

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    10. Throwing elaborate parties just to get the attention of a singular person.

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    11. Dating someone as a bet, and then falling in love with them once they've had their "makeover."

    Laney Boggs getting a makeover in She's All That

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    12. Going from friends with benefits to lovers.

    Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis facing each other in front of a busy crowd in Friends with Benefits

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    13. Listing someone's attributes in a spur-of-the-moment kinda way.

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    14. Scaling the wall of your ex's house just to speak to them.

    Troy Bolton standing on Gabriella's balcony in high school musical

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    15. Pretending to be involved with someone when you're not.

    Lara Jean on the football field in To All The Boys I Loved Before

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    16. Interrupting a wedding and then leaving your partner at the alter for someone else.

    bride and groom looking back at the wedding guests in Four Weddings and a Funeral

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    17. Also, interrupting another person's wedding to profess your love for someone there.

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    18. And of course, kissing in the rain.

    man and woman kissing

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    Are there any other rom-com moments that strike you as super weird or actually quite creepy? Let us know in the comments!