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Couples Therapists, What Are The First Signs That Tell You A Relationship Isn't Going To Work Out In The End?

We want to know all of the early red flags you recognize in relationships.

If a couple starts to notice unhealthy dynamics emerging in their relationship, seeking out therapy is a solid first step in healing these habits.

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However, it's an unfortunate truth that, in spite of these efforts, not all partners may end up together in the end.

Young heterosexual couple are quarreling while sitting on couch at home

If you are a couples therapist, we want to learn about the early indications that separating might the fate of a couple who is seeking professional counseling.

Young couple having session with psychologist at office, psychologist is talking about problems, young couple is listening to her

Maybe you can predict a romance likely won't work out due to a clear lack of trust between partners that shows up immediately.

Young couple at marital counseling therapy

Perhaps one party's minimal effort in carrying their weight tells you early on that the relationship probably can't survive.

Man doing a desperate gesture hidding his face during couple's therapy with a psychologist

Or, it could just be obvious to you right away that the two don't have similar enough values or goals to keep up their union.

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Whatever the hints may be, we want to know! Couples therapists, please tell us the first signs you notice that signal to you a relationship won't last. Your response could be featured in a future BuzzFeed Community post!