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I Became Celibate For A Year To Regain My Orgasm And It Worked

Sometimes it's just as simple as knowing that every part of you trusts your partner.

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Watch how Daysha navigates a year long journey of celibacy.

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When it didn't work out with Brandon, Daysha felt she had to "sex" him out. That's where Jack came in (no pun intended).


He was hot, he kissed her tenderly, and he was everything Daysha thought should satisfy her to infinity and beyond.

It became clear that Daysha needed to be able to get close to someone first, and be able to let them in both mentally and physically.


"I feel like my inability to have an orgasm was my body's weird way of saying: Your orgasm is worth so much more than these fuckboys!"


After reading an interesting article about a guy who turned to celibacy, Daysha decided to give it a try.


She wanted to figure how to be with someone without having sex, and that entailed learning how to build trust.

Then Daysha met Jay and it all came together. It reminded her of exactly why she did that whole thing to begin with.


She was expecting him to slowly fade out, but he stuck around! Not only that, but they talked for hours, and really got to know each other.

Okay, so Daysha was two weeks shy of her one-year anniversary of celibacy when she and Jay took their relationship to the next level.


She felt that same awesome combination of love and lust that Brandon had introduced her to. "I feel like what really did it was his genuine ability to embrace new things."