UK Buzz Fellowship :7 Reasons Your Ex Wont Come Back

So you have gone through a breakup and you expected your ex to come running back but this time... they haven't. Here our 7 reasons as to why that may be.

1. It's Too Soon

Not enough time has passed, you two just broke up! Give the other person time to heal or to see how life is without you. You owe it to the other person to give them time to decide what they want. If you jump in to early you could long out the time needed to forget about all the bad things that happened.

2. The Breakup Was Messy

Some things in life are just unforgivable. If you did something you know that you couldn't forgive if it happened to you then maybe don't be expecting any calls to meet up any time soon.

3. He/She Has Moved On Already

Yes it's the sad truth that many of us have had to come to terms with, your ex has moved on without you. As heartbreaking as this may be don't worry too much, if you have noticed that your ex has moved on pretty quickly after you two have split this may just be a rebound and they typically don't last. In the meantime get yourself out there and if the person does decide to come back, you will be in a much happier state of mind to make the decision on whether or not you want them back in your life.

4. The Relationship Wasn't Healthy

If this is the case you shouldn't be surprised that your ex hasn't gotten in touch with you and it might just be for the best. If you spent more time fighting than loving and can only look back on your time together with mostly arguments and concerns for your mental health, maybe its a good idea that you move on.

5. Enjoying The Single Life

Sometimes when people are newly single they like to go out and see what they've been missing. It has been shown that women tend to find it harder to deal with the breakup at first but then get over it while men deal with it much later on after they have had their fun. A man that has just gotten out of a relationship may want to enjoy his new found lifestyle but try not to worry, this phase tends to go once they've realize how much the miss you.

6. You Were The "Sidechick"

There is a slight possibility that the reason your ex isn't coming back to you is because they have returned back to their main person of interest after realizing that he favors them over you. You might of just been a pit stop... OUCH!

7. They Have Outgrown You

What can I say? There was nothing bad about the breakup or anything left to be fixed. Unfortunately the person has just outgrew the relationship and has realized it wasn't for them anymore but hey don't be sad, there is nothing stopping you from reaching out and proposing a friendship. As long as you don't do this with the expectation that it will lead to something but if it does then good for you ;)