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25 Life-Changing Relationship Lessons We Learned From Chuck And Blair

"Three words, eight letters."

1. Chuck and Blair proved that all relationships come with a little bit of dysfunction.

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Just because you are often in a power struggle, it doesn't mean you're not meant for each other.

2. But they also showed us love can be so damn real.

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Chuck wouldn't be Chuck Bass without Blair, and Blair wouldn't be Queen B without Chuck.

3. Blair and Chuck made us realize sometimes love comes from the most unexpected places.

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There's nothing like some playful teasing to get the spark going.

4. And there's nothing better than having your S.O. also be your partner in crime.

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What would a proper scheme be without working together?

5. Don't be afraid to make the first move, and tell your crush how you really feel.

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Sometimes it takes being on a Manhattan rooftop to get your feelings out.

6. Because they might be thinking the same thing.

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Great conniving minds think alike, right?

7. After all, their weaknesses may be your strengths.

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And that helps you both see the good in each other.

8. Every time you hit a rough patch, "sorry" can be so much more than just a word.

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Let's not forget the countless times Chuck pushed Blair away.

9. As well as that eight-letter phrase.

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All it takes is eight letters and three words to show how much you really care about each other.

10. Loving someone means being their biggest fan, even when it seems like the whole world is against them.

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Like when Chuck threw the prom queen vote just to see Blair happy.

11. And knowing they'll always be there for you when it feels like no one else is.

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It may not be as dramatic as Blair saving Chuck from leaping off a skyscraper, but it might feel like it.

12. Sometimes being in love means putting up a fight.

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And it's totally worth it.

13. And accepting that the hard times are necessary to know if you really want to be with them.

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Like when Chuck let Blair go, trusting that she'd come back.

14. Color-coordinating with your partner never hurt anybody.

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Looking good and feeling good go hand in hand.

15. Neither has a little spontaneity.

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Even if it means having a little fun in the back of a limo.

16. Compliments never get old.

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Even if your S.O. has the confidence of Blair Waldorf.

17. And your S.O. should never fail to recognize how amazing you are.

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Chuck was able to put his pride aside to recognize the beauty and badassery that was Blair Waldorf.

18. No matter how cheeky they may be.

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And Blair did the same.

19. And keeping things lively is part of the fun.

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Even if it means role-playing as a French maid.

20. Never be afraid to be honest and talk about your problems.

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It's the only time Blair and Chuck got anywhere.

21. Because once you can be honest with each other, you can fully trust each other.

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Games are fun to a point, but a relationship goes farther than that.

22. Sometimes the strongest relationships are the ones that have been broken up several times along the road.

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Even after countless prostitutes and plot twists, Chuck and Blair ended up together.

23. And loving someone might mean giving them a second chance.

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Even if it's for the fourth time...

24. Sometimes being patient can be unbelievably hard.

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Blair deserves a gold medal for her ability to wait for Chuck.

25. But in the end, it's all completely worth it.

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And it always will be.

Chair FOREVER!

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