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17 Songs That Aren't As Romantic As You May Think

Warning: Don't play these at your wedding.

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1. U2, "With Or Without You"

Bono sings of feeling tormented, bruised, and broken down in defeat. Not exactly the right vibe for a romantic night or a wedding first dance you'll remember forever.

Red Flag Lyric: “My hands are tied, my body bruised / She's got me with / nothing to win and / nothing left to lose"

2. The Police, "Every Breath You Take"

Um. No, I would not like you to watch my every move, THANK YOU VERY MUCH. Also, Sting thinks the song is very sinister, aka not appropriate to woo someone with!

Red Flag Lyric: Every move you make / Every vow you break/ Every smile you fake / Every claim you stake / I'll be watching you."

3. Birdy/Bon Iver, "Skinny Love"

Sure, Birdy's cover of "Skinny Love" sounds romantic and dreamy, but it's actually about a love that's not quite there. Bon Iver's Justin Vernon explained the meaning in an interview in 2011: "Skinny love doesn't have a chance because it's not nourished." Ouch.

Red Flag Lyric: "And now all your love is wasted / And then who the hell was I?"


8. Celine Dion, "My Heart Will Go On"

Celine sings of going on with life after the passing of a loved one (like Rose's Jack in Titanic, remember?), but always keeping them in your heart. Which is a sweet sentiment, but probably not right for someone you're just starting your life with.

Red Flag Lyric: "Every night in my dreams / I see you, I feel you / That is how I know you go on"


12. Judy Garland/Israel "Iz" Kamakawiwo'ole, "Somewhere Over The Rainbow"

A classic song, but super depressing? It's all about longing to escape somewhere else, but love is all about being present in the moment. Now think about that for a minute.

Red Flag Lyric: "If happy little bluebirds fly / Beyond the rainbow / Why, oh, why can't I?"

14. The Verve, "Bittersweet Symphony"

Don't be fooled by grand orchestral opuses, people! All the strings may sound gorgeous and uplifting, but "Bittersweet Symphony" is in fact a song for the jaded. But maybe you want to keep things ~real~. If so, more power to you. Stick it to The Man.

Red Flag Lyric: "'Cause it's a bittersweet symphony, this life / Try to make ends meet / Try to find some money then you die."

And if you're having a wedding reception... stay clear of these dangerous jams:

15. Kanye West, "Gold Digger"

Sure, it's fun to dance to – both parents and young people alike can get down to 'Ye's early hit. But it might be just a LITTLE too soon to crack jokes about prenups.

Red Flag Lyric: "We want prenup! / Yeah / It's something that you need to have / 'Cause when she leave yo' ass she gonna leave with half."