Welcome to the Ramily 💚
Do: Work with your Ram to set aside a check-in time.
Do: Know your Ram is living on a budget.
Do: Ask your Ram how you can help him/her.
Don't: Expect your Ram to go into study mode just at midterms and finals.
Don't: Expect your Ram to always answer your messages right away.
Don't: Take it personally.
Don't: Just take our word for it. Here is some additional advice from current students.
“I wish that they knew I want to be present for them and involved in their lives, but I don’t always have the time I would like to spend time with them.”
”I wish they knew how stressful it is to be in this much debt--I want to be able to come visit people around the country, but I just don't have money for the plane tickets.”
“Budget is incredibly shoestring. I'm not missing your wedding because I'm a jerk, I just literally have no money to fly out.”
“The exams are tough and school is hard, so when I seem stressed it isn’t because of you, but because of school.”
“Making phone calls back to friends and family gets very difficult in the middle of the week, so a text FROM my support group saying, 'I know you are swamped so I just wanted to text and remind you I love you!' would be helpful.”