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Matthew Gray Gubler Has Love Advice For You So You Should Probably Take It

Because who else would you listen to?

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In his movie Newness, which premiered this week at the 2017 Sundance Film Festival, Gubler plays a comedic best friend character — one who also has some wise words about love.

Matthew Gray Gubler / Via Twitter: @GUBLERNATION

Matthew Gray Gubler with his Newness costars, Nicholas Hoult, Laia Costa, and director Drake Doremus at the 2017 Sundance Film Festival.


Because of his ~expertise~ on love, BuzzFeed News asked the actor for more of his key relationship advice.

On being on your cell phone


"I would try to eliminate the phone, in general, from your relationships because it is the enemy of being present. It feels to me, when you're with someone you really love, you never look at your phone."

On telling someone you love them


"Well there are two version of this answer. I would say, 'Go for it! Do it! Tell her you love her!' But also, I'm a coward at heart and I'm wearing my mother's sweater so you can imagine. It wasn't until like 3 years to call a girl on the phone so it took awhile. I understand any sort of hesitance but you gotta go for it. Now more than ever."

To the non-believers


"Aww, you have to believe in love. That's the most important thing. I refuse to believe that there's no one out there for you. Even the biggest Scrooge McDuck deep down believes [in it]. Maybe they were hurt by love and now don't believe in it, but you always have to believe in it. It's the most beautiful thing in the world."