1. Betrayal is Relational
2. We have strong desires to belong and be accepted. When these inherent needs are threatened, it is extremely upsetting. After we emotionally attach to our significant other, we naturally believe that they will never hurt us. When betrayed, our judgement and intuition about this person are now called into question. No longer believing that you can trust your gut feels scary.
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