John Mayer: Taylor Swift’s Song About Our Relationship “Humiliated Me”
Does he expect us to feel bad for him?
In the latest issue of Rolling Stone, Mayer spoke about the “abusing” damage Taylor Swift’s song she wrote about their romantic time together did to him because he “didn’t deserve it”. He also goes on to call her songwriting “cheap”. Here are all the important quotes you need to know:
It made me feel terrible, because I didn’t deserve it. I’m pretty good at taking accountability now, and I never did anything to deserve that. It was a really lousy thing for her to do.
I never got an e-mail. I never got a phone call. I was really caught off-guard, and it really humiliated me at a time when I’d already been dressed down. I mean, how would you feel if, at the lowest you’ve ever been, someone kicked you even lower?”
I will say as a songwriter that I think it’s kind of cheap songwriting. know she’s the biggest thing in the world, and I’m not trying to sink anybody’s ship, but I think it’s abusing your talent to rub your hands together and go, ‘Wait till he gets a load of this!’ That’s bullshit.
Speaking of the songwriting, here are the full lyrics to Taylor’s angry song (which you can also listen to here):
Long were the nights when my days once revolved around you
Counting my footsteps praying the floor won’t fall through again
And my mother accused me of losing my mind
But I swore I was fineYou paint me a blue sky and go back and turn it to rain
And I lived in your chess game, but you changed the rules everyday
Wondering which version of you I might get on the phone tonight
Well, I stopped picking up and this song is to let you know whyDear John, I see it all now that you’re gone
Don’t think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress cried the whole way home
I should’ve knownWell, maybe it’s just me and my blind optimism to blame
Or maybe it’s you and your sick need to give love then take it away
And you’ll add my name to your long list of traitors who don’t understand
And I’ll look back and regret how I ignored when they said run as fast as you canDear John, I see it all now that you’re gone
Don’t you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress cried the whole way homeDear John, I see it all now it was wrong
Don’t you think nineteen’s too young to be played with?
Your dark twisted games when I loved you so
I should’ve knownYou are an expert at sorry and keeping lines blurry
Never impressed by me acing your tests
All the girls that you’ve run dry have tired, lifeless eyes
‘Cause you’ve burn them outBut I took your matches before fire could catch me
So don’t look now
I’m shining like fireworks over
Your sad, empty townDear John, I see it all now that you’re gone
Don’t you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress cried the whole way homeDear John, I see it all now it was wrong
Don’t you think nineteen’s too young to be played with?
The girl in the dress wrote you a song
You should’ve knownYou should’ve known
Don’t you think I was too young?
You should’ve known
When asked about the line where Swift says, “Don’t you think I was too young to be messed with?” John responded, “I don’t want to go into that.” Right.
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Klo732 11 months agoI love Taylor. But she was dumb as hell for dating him. But she’s also very open about the fact that she writes songs about her exes. To her credit she’s even written “Back to December” about Taylor Lautner, where she apologizes for leaving him. So at least she’s fair. I don’t think “Dear John” was very invasive. Most people know it’s about him but I don’t think it made him look any worse then he already did (based on his previous relationships). Also I’ve always thought the title was a play on words with his name and the idea of a “dear john” letter.
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☁Spam Of God☁ 11 months agoI freaking love Taylor Swift so much. She’s like the patron saint of nice girls who let themselves get walked all over.
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SuperTechnoFunk 11 months agoA musician wrote a song about her ex? Whoa, ‘cause thats never happened before. This dude needs to get over himself.
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Krissy Diggs 11 months agoAt the end of the day… She’s a songwriter (though admittedly not a fan…). She’s a ‘poet’. They tend to write about their life experiences almost ALL THE TIME. OF COURSE she’ll write a song about you if you break her heart. What would you expect? I’m pretty sure most every song that refers to someone by name is about SOMEONE in the songwriter’s life or memory… It’s the nature of the beast. Too bad you happen to be ‘famous’, Johnny. Get over yourself you half talent douche of a has-been. I’ll feel no pity for you. Nut up.
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KingMidasInReverse 11 months agoYeah who really gives a shit about these two washed up celebrities.
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kyrski 11 months agoi hate them both, for different reasons but seriously taylor swift? if nineteen’s “too young to be played with” then maybe you shouldn’t be dating older men. i’m not saying that dating older men is bad (i’m with one) but give up your bullshit expectations. prince charming doesn’t exist, and you’re not a freaking princess either. they’re both sociopaths.
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AubrieWanKenaubrie 11 months agoYes— butt whiney. I meant bit* but I, “butt whiney” is the new thing!
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AubrieWanKenaubrie 11 months agoWell I dont like either of them. Fame is icky, it leads to these sort of personalities. If you ask me, there both being a but whiney.
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deliaaaaaa 11 months agoYou go, Taylor Swift! I’m not even a big fan of most of her music, but it is about damn time someone called out John Mayer for being so….John Mayer-y.
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JonHaven360 11 months agoIf you date Taylor Swift you must stay with her forever.. or else she’ll write a mean song about you and make millions. Wait a minute… is that her master plan?! Genius.
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AdventureNeckbeard 11 months agoAnytime a guy gets in a relationship with Taylor Swift they need to sign a contract noting that: In the event of a fight, or break up, or all of the above, there WILL be a song written about them.
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Aunt Kathy 11 months agoHe’s just pissed that Taylor’s fan base will boycott his new album. Sorry Johnny
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RhiRiot 11 months agoHis most popular song was about his current girlfriend at the time “Body is a Wonderland”? How is that any less private? I’m sorry but ALL musician’s write about their lives! Why? Because it’s a real pain that they are going through and it’s the purest thing they can right about. That’s why they become hits. Even the poppy up beat “So What?” by Pink was a hit b/c you could really relate to it. I know I played it over and over and over again after my divorce.
“I got my rock moves, and I don’t need you!” I personally would love to see them battle it out over song like Amy Lee and Seether did, “You Never Call Me When You’re Sober” vs. “Hypocrite” Bring it on!! -






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