LGBTQ·Posted on Jan 29, 201512 Queer Women Who Are Sick Of Straight People Hitting On Them"What are you looking for in a man?" If he has a sister.by Sarah KarlanBuzzFeed News ReporterLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. For gay or bisexual women, navigating the minefields of online dating can be exhausting. Nope, no thanks. Not today. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Ladies, remember: 2. Don't hesitate to say it how it is: Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. Simply speak your truth: Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. Keep that perfect comeback in your back pocket: 5. Attempt to create a teaching moment: Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. Try a splash of sarcasm in dire situations: Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. First and foremost, be honest: Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. Note: Honesty is not always fully understood. 9. Provide a small dose of reality: Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 10. Test their reading comprehension. They may be unable to read: View this photo on Instagram 11. Speak slowly and carefully, so that each syllable is understood: 12. And stay strong. View this photo on Instagram